Welcome back to another week of AskPatti. Your questions just keep getting better and better. We’re dealing with some really amazing topics this week, so let’s jump in!
@pattistanger. #askpatti. Hi , me and my bf been together 11 months and when we walk to town he wont hold my hand. Wht does that mean?xxx
— Terry Pavlou (@terry_pavlou) November 14, 2013
ASK HIM! Maybe he doesn’t know you like to hold hands or is embarrassed of PDA or doesn’t want you to feel his sweaty palms. I really don’t know. But, I do know that a relationship without communication isn’t a healthy one. Just ask him about it if it’s bothering you.
@pattistanger How do guys see free-spirited women? Good or bad for a serious relationship? #AskPatti — Desiree Banugo (@desireebanugo) November 14, 2013
It really depends on the guy. Some super serious guys might view your free-spirited nature as a turn off, but some will see it as a total turn on and be magnetized to your energy. Look at Zooey Deschanel, the poster lady for free-spirited females. She’s not everyone’s dream girl, but there are a lot of men who totally swoon for her. Don’t change anything about your personality to attract a man. You’ll find an amazing man who loves your spirit. And who wants a super serious dude anyway?
@pattistanger how long? 26 years old, I’ve been dating since I was 16. Where is he? I’m tired. #AskPatti #MrRight #PrinceCharming — Becky (@Babygotbeck725) November 15, 2013
Girl, I hear you! I was single for a lot longer than you and dating can get exhausting. While I don’t know exactly when your Prince Charming is coming around the corner, I do know that if you change your attitude about dating and decide to focus on the fun parts rather than the parts that feel like chores, you’ll have a much better time until he decides to show up.
#AskPatti if I do social media & he’s entrepen’r & he asks for help mktg his biz, should I wait and what to say? I’m not ready to mix yet — Internet Guru Girl (@WebGuruGirl) November 15, 2013
Good for you! My advice is to never mix business and pleasure with your significant other. Keep your personal life and your professional life separate and both will be a lot healthier. Once you’re working together, a lot of the romance vanishes and things can get sticky quickly.
#AskPatti you are so amazing at what you do does it come natural or did you have to practise @pattistanger — LightyJaade•GekoUsg♥ (@bosslady_jaadee) November 15, 2013
Both! Matchmaking is definitely in my blood since my mother and grandmother were matchmakers, but it’s a skillset you definitely need to hone. I love what I do, so it doesn’t feel like practice at all, though!
That’s it for today, lovelies. Tweet you next week!
