Winter is here and even though I’m in California where I don’t experience a truly brutal winter, there’s something about the shorter days that give winter a real icky vibe. Even without blustery winds, there are so many days when I want to put my hair in a top knot (and not a cute Urban Outfitters catalog top knot, a totally gross one that’s flat and greasy, but still frizzy in a way that seems to defy science) and wear sweats all day. And when there are a lot of those days in a row, you can start to feel pretty gross about yourself. And when you’re feeling gross about yourself, it’s tough to get into the mood for sex. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):It’s hard to tell the difference between agitation and excitement. It doesn’t much matter as long as you channel the energy into doing something constructive.
(April 20 - May 20):Be honest. Not getting what you wanted is what you secretly desired. Don't make the other party feel bad for turning you down. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):A partner is disappointed with results, but you see the seeds of a future success. Be encouraging. Your bravado is needed now.
(April 20 - May 20):Clearly there will be changes in your career. Thankfully you have lots of time to negotiate them. Be proactive. Don’t wait for developments to come to you. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):You’re tempted to sidestep a confrontation, but don’t. You need to protect your interests before things get worse.
(April 20 - May 20):Change doesn’t undermine your security; it expands it. Don’t let your love of the status quo keep you from thinking outside the comfort zone. Read more
I know everyone’s saying this, but it’s true. So, I’ll say it, too. We are living in some of the most politically divided times ever. I haven’t been shy about where I stand on this divide. I was pro Hillary and will never feel comfortable with Trump as our leader. This isn’t about being a sore loser. It’s about what I truly feel is right for our country. Even just listening to myself, I can tell there’s a very real split in this country and I know that I’m a part of it. This divide it feels like it touches everything, not just politics. And one of the facets of life that I hear about it affecting the most is romance. Should a requirement to share the same political beliefs be a non-negotiable? I have two answers for that... Read more