Monthly Archives: August 2013

Stop Playing Dating Games

Let me ask you a few questions… Have you ever ignored a guy’s text message? Have you ever dropped his calls so you looked busy? Have you put off a date because you told him you were double-booked? Be honest. How many times have you done one of these things? You waited until his third missed call before you bothered to reply to him. You spoke to your friends and they told you to play it cool, and don’t show you’re interested in him. You met a man you liked, and even though he asked you out, you told him you were busy. You wanted to make him wait for you. What happened in the end? He never tried asking you out again. If you really want to find love, you have to stop playing those dating games! Read more

Popcorn for One

In the city of West Hollywood, there is always a multitude of things to do at any given hour of the day. From brunch to shopping, spa appointments to happy hour; one could entertain a small group of tourists without ever leaving the city limits. A quick glance of my daily calendar reads like a 6-year-olds play date schedule: “10am brunch with Adam,” “12pm Boot Camp with Valerie” “3pm Mani/Pedi with Klarissa” At first glance, you would think that this is a fabulous day of pampering and life balance. But a second look reminds me that something very crucial is missing from the picture… “Me” Read more

Why Isn’t He Getting Hard For Me?

Have you ever been going down on a guy, and suddenly you start to realize he’s not getting hard for you? I bet there were a hundred things going through your mind at that point. “Why isn’t he turned on by me? What am I doing wrong? Isn’t he attracted to me anymore?” I was talking to a client of mine about this the other day. He asked me, “David, sometimes a woman will be going down on me and I won’t be able to get hard. I’m fine when we’re having sex. What’s wrong with me? Has it happened to you before?” I couldn’t help but smile and say, “Yes. It’s happened to me more than once too!” Read more

Thinking of Playing Matchmaker?

I absolutely love bringing people together. Even before I made it my career, matching up my single friends was always so thrilling and rewarding for me. If you enjoy spreading love and have a natural matchmaking instinct or if you are constantly nagged by your friends to “set them up with someone good!” here are four factors to consider BEFORE setting up a friend to make sure your match is a success. After all, you want to be the one they thank at their wedding reception! Read more

Men, take note! The 10 best dressed guys in Hollywood

Attention to all my male readers and the women who love them: Fashion goes a long way when it comes to sex appeal in a man. Think of any man you know, now think of him in a tuxedo. See what I mean? Any and every guy looks better when he’s put a little effort into his getup. So, here are 10 of the men in Hollywood who I think put their ensembles together better than anyone else. This should give you some male style inspiration. Read more

How Do I Know What He’s Really Thinking?

I get tons of emails from women, but the question I'm asked the most is “How do I know what he’s really thinking?” “We’ve been going out for a while. He seems to like me. We’ve even started having sex, but suddenly he’s gone cold on me. What’s changed? Did I do something to upset him?” Well, let’s look at this situation shall we? You’ve started a relationship with a man. You’ve taken your relationship to the physical stage. And you feel like he was starting to open up to you. Now he’s gone cold, there must be something going on in his head right? I mean, men don’t just go cold for no reason do they? Well, I’m going to put you out of your misery and give you the answer to that burning question… Read more