Girl on girl action may be exciting for a guy, but when we of the fairer sex dream about it, it can be a bit unnerving. And guy on guy action is sometimes displeasing for a man who is an avowed skirt chaser. If you are not gay and you have a gay or lesbian dream, it does not mean you have a hidden desire to bat for the other team. What it does mean is that you are indeed proud of being a member of said team.
The sex with the same gender dreams are cousin to the mystery lover dreams in that the meaning is most often focused on gender roles. For example, when a woman does something that makes her feel particularly feminine, such as mothering a sick friend or getting cat calls from a construction crew across the street, she could very well be the proud recipient of a lesbian dream that night! When a man does something particularly manly, such as getting a raise or replacing the timing belt in his car, he too may very well find a man loving up on him that night.