I’m guessing this isn’t your first relationship rodeo. You’ve been around the block in the relationship department. So have I! And I don’t think of this as a negative at all. It’s good to have experience. Practice makes perfect and by this point, you know exactly what you want. Those are very good things! And when you find yourself in a new relationship, you probably know if you want to get serious with this newbie right away. If you do, why wait? Here’s how to crank up your new relationship into serious territory straight away. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):An old squabble rears its hoary head today, but let it go. You’ve come too far to let a knee-jerk reaction kick over a delicate truce.
(April 20 - May 20):You’re close to reaping the results of your hard work. The next two weeks will be dramatic and transformative as the old makes way for the new. Read more
I’m not embarrassed to admit that I go through periods of major funks. I’m not clinically diagnosed with anything and I don’t want to say I’m dealing with anything close to those who do have diagnoses. I just have days or periods of days in a row when I'm not quite myself. I’m telling this to you guys because I think it’s important to be open about our mental health and realize that even people who are generally emotionally healthy have times in their lives when they’re not 100%. I think of it like my general health. I have a healthy body and immune system, but I still sometimes get sick. Read more
(March 20 - April 19):There are still some things that you want settled before you’re completely satisfied but there’s plenty of time for that later. For now, give peace a chance.
(April 20 - May 20):Obligations tug at your sleeve like a demanding child, but maybe what’s needed is a mental rest day? That to-do list can wait. Read more
My personal rule for myself when I’m single is to always say yes to a first date. Always, always, always. I say yes even when I “know” a first date isn’t going to be a love connection. I’m no psychic and I’ve been wrong about who I’ve had chemistry with in the past. I tell my clients to be open minded and I remind myself to do the same thing all the time. That being said, there are times when you have a first date coming up and you get the urge to cancel it. Read more