How to attract a quality guy

How Do You Know If You’re Dating A Sex Addict?

Man browses porn on his computer
Your friends think you’re crazy. You’re dating a hot, sexy, confident man, and what’s more, he’s madly in love with you. But there’s a problem, and it’s starting to worry you. The sex you share together is INCREDIBLE. No other man has made your toes curl like this guy, but his appetite for sex is insatiable. In fact, you struggle to keep up. You’re worried he might even be a sex addict. If he’s addicted to sex and you can’t keep up, he might look elsewhere. You’re worried, and the more sex he demands from you, the more worried you become. So how do you know if you’re dating a sex addict? What signs should you be looking out for? And what can you do if you think you’re dating someone who is addicted to sex? Read more

The 5 Things You Need To Know To Master The Art of Seduction

Woman seduces a man into bed
A few weeks ago I was invited to give a talk at a private club in New York City about the art of seduction.  I didn’t know quite who would be attending this event, but figured the group would be comprised of mostly singles looking for help finding a mate.  When I got there however, I was amazed by the diversity of my audience. The room held married couples, newly divorce individuals, and singles from all walks of life. This broad turnout made me wonder why such a wide range of people would be interested in learning about the art of seduction. Read more

Daily Horoscopes: April 16, 2014



March 20 - April 18

It’s ironic that you’re the one trying to make a hothead see reason. That person is usually you! Nevertheless this role reversal is why your message will be heard loud and clear today.


April 19 - May 19

You’ll have to change some fixtures in your life, but not now. Take the next two months to review what you can live without if push comes to shove. Read more

Caught Red Hot Tindering: Hook-up app or game changer?

Whether we’re all too busy or lazy or superficial, does it really matter why we’re dating online? It’s almost expected to have tried digital dating these days if you’re looking for love but the new Tinder app turns dating into a game and those with delicate egos need not download.  No matter how you slice it, the Tinder app is all about who you find visually appealing in 5 photos and 500 words or less. As you swipe left or right to “like” or “reject” a prospect, your potential match does the same. If you both choose ‘like’, it’s a match. Some call it ‘the hook-up’ app and yet others have found love and even marriage. I have no time to date, so I decided to do a live, blind Tinder date on the Sex With Emily podcast. I set the mood and went for the full experience with dimmed lights, wine and of course a few Emily & Tony aromatherapy massage candles to set the mood. My date “Chad”, isn’t afraid to get into his past, voice his opinion (about everything….) and give me a hard time. We talk about marriage, why relationships fail and sex as you age. Chad reveals secrets about his past, I shared my dating patterns As the date progresses, we have differing outlooks but maybe opposites attract? Let me know what you think and what have been your experiences on Tinder? Email me your questions and stories to   Want more Sex With Emily? Check out my podcasts for free on iTunes, my book Hot Sex and my iPhone apps Kegel Camp and Sex Drive. Check out my new intimate care line Emily & Tony for massage candles that turn into luxurious massage oil and DownUnder comfort to stay fresh and dry down there. Use Coupon Code SEXWITHEMILY or 20% off. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations. These are my favorite sex toys and vibrators from Good Vibes: Sex Toy Recommendations (some restrictions apply). Never tried the #1 Male sex toy. Get a Fleshlight Here

Cheating Myths Debunked

A woman cheats on her boyfriend
In my line of work as a relationship expert, I work with cheaters. Some are funny, others volunteer, and some go to church every Sunday. Some coach their child’s sports teams, others take care of their elderly parents, and some are the sweetest people you’ll ever meet. Some research shows that, at a minimum, at least 50% of all couples will be affected by cheating. It can happen to you. No relationship is immune from infidelity. There is a lack of education about cheating, especially around how and why it happens. I find myself repeating the same things to my clients and continually debunking myths. Talking openly about the “reality” of infidelity is one of the best ways of protecting a relationship from it. Read more
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