How To Fight the Healthy Way

A couple fights the healthy way
Fighting might be something that you try to avoid like the plague while dating but even couples in very healthy relationships argue from time to time. “Fighting” brings to mind yelling, intense conversations, threats and slamming doors-but it doesn't have to be that way. It's normal to disagree with your partner, and heck, it's even encouraged. The best relationships are the ones that challenge us and that means there might be occasional disagreements-plus, there is no point in dating someone who never wants to fight for the beliefs. With that said, it's not about if you fight, it's more important how you fight. Here are some tips on how to fight with your partner and come out the other side with an even stronger relationship! Read more

How To Get Rid Of Mr. Creepy!

Woman turned off by a creepy guy
As a woman you probably have guys approaching you all the time, but how many of them actually interest you? I mean, some are just plain creepy right? How about that guy that just makes you feel weird when you first talk to him, but for some weird reason you have him your number anyway thinking he’d never have the guts to call you. You just wanted to get rid of him so you gave him your number so you could escape. Read more

When relationships change should your expectations as well?

Sherri Shepard and Lamar Sally
Height, weight, eye color - things like this are easy to evaluate right off the bat because lets face it, character assessment takes much more time. So if you are all skin and bones and the man you meet likes curvy women, you may not be a match. If a woman can't stand being taller than the man she's dating, and you're one of the nicest guys in the world but only 5' 1" there's a chance date number 3 may not happen. Read more

Try this inexpensive contouring powder for your next date

When Kim Kardashian posted the ever so famous contouring and highlighting picture on Instagram, all make up junkies alike ran to get lighter and darker shades of foundation, concealers, and powders to duplicate the look. Its no wonder that companies like Anastasia of Beverly Hills and Motives Cosmetics came out with contouring/highlighting palettes. Read more

Dating things only true New Yorkers can relate to

New York City dating
I’ve been spending a good amount of time in New York City recently. I’ve been going there a ton for work and extending the trips for pleasure. Some of my favorite people in the world live in New York City, despite the fact that I keep telling them that California is so much better! I got to thinking about how dating in New York is so much different than dating in the rest of the world. Here are a few of the things that are different in the Big Apple! Read more

How to take a risk to find great love

Couple at sunset on the beach
I am not a game player. I actually despise the game players. Just like I despise the actions of women who think they are too good to walk thru a door that a man holds open for them—I’ll be sure to circle back to that one in another column. I think that game players are immature and set a horrible example for what people THINK dating should be. Indifference. NO!  Act indifferent and you will live an indifferent life. Read more