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Top 5 Reasons You Definitely Should NOT Marry Your Boyfriend

Woman decides not to marry her boyfriend1. He Never Wants To Talk About the Future

If talking about the future with your boyfriend involves references to Sci Fi movies, and no mention of children, love, or white picket fences, then you might want to reconsider his feelings for you.  He’s probably not thinking about the relationship long term yet if he doesn’t have any plan at all for the two of you.   #backtothefuture #deflecticon


2. He Enjoys “Guy Time” More Than “Us Time”

If football is his first love, then you need to punt that guy.  You’re going to be spending a LOT of time with this person for the next 50-60 years of your life, so you both better enjoy doing things together.  Let your intuition guide you.    #lockedmancave #brosbeforehoes


3. He’s Already Married To His Job

Marry you?  He’s got a family to take care of already – it’s called his clients and coworkers.  He spends every waking moment with them or talking to them on the phone, instead of you.  #turnoffyourphone #liveforthemoney


4. You Hate His Family

Ask any married woman, and they’ll tell you that you don’t just marry him, you marry his whole family. That means you’re going to be stuck with them for a long, long time.  If you genuinely can’t stand being around these people (we’re looking at you overbearing mother-in-laws), then you may want to reconsider a lifelong commitment.  After you get married, your hubby may end up acting more and more like the rest of those crazy people.  #meettheparents #familyfeud


5.  He’s Cheated On You

Don’t get caught on the ego trip of keeping him or winning him back. Obviously this is not the right time for him to be in a serious relationship.  Cheating is often a pattern, and patterns don’t change without a major effort.  #moveondotcom  #saymyname