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5 Ways to seduce him

5 ways how to seduce him
I know what it’s like to be several months or years into a relationship and feel like that zip-zap-zoom has dwindled down a blip-bleep-bloop. It’s tough to keep the sexy factor up there when the everyday-life-factor is in there. Who feels sexy when you see your dude accidentally put on his tighy-whiteys backwards every morning? Well, no matter where you are in your relationship, here are five ways you can seduce your man and crank up that sexy factor for the night.

  1. Surprise

    Get your man’s heart racing with a little sexy shock. The surprise could range from a naughty picture to his work e-mail to a full on romp in the sheets in the middle of a lazy Sunday when the kids are at soccer. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy, just catch him a little off guard and you’ll have his heart racing.

  2. Anticipation

    Another strategy is to whet his pallet and then keep him waiting. Anticipation is a very powerful. Give him a little taste of what could be coming his way and then make him wait. Leave a pair of sexy panties in his briefcase with a “See you tonight!” message and then have a sexy night waiting for him. Build it up and make him wait for it and you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand!

  3. Make him feel like a king

    This one is really straightforward. Just make him fee like the king that he is. Set a night aside and do everything his way. Let him pick where you have dinner. Wear the dress you know he loves. You drive so he can drink. Treat the night like it’s his birthday. Nothing will turn him on more than having everything his way.

  4. Unexpected places

    One of my favorite ways to spice things up is to do the deed in expected places. Coat closets! In the car! Out in nature! Kitchen counters! Basically, anywhere that’s not your usual spot. Sex out of the bedroom always adds the spark back into even the most boring sex lives.

  5. Be confident

    No matter what you decide to do to amp up your seduction factor, make sure you feel confident doing it. Even the sexiest lingerie will look “meh” if the woman wearing it isn’t standing up straight and owning it. Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with or you won’t feel like your best self doing it. Own your seduction. Men love confidence more than anything!


What do you do to seduce your man? Let me know in the comments below!