Category Archives: The Sex Files with Emily Morse

Sex Up Your Valentine’s Day Wish List

We all dream of getting that perfect Valentine’s Day gift that takes our breath away and makes us want to show the giver how grateful we are. It’s got be romantic and thoughtful, more sophisticated than a mixtape but more intimate than a food processor. We’re looking for a gift that comes with a very specific message: “I love you, I know what you like and I didn’t get this 12 hours ago at Target.” Read more

Sex Goals Every Couple Should Commit To And Stick To

We, as adults, are all about long-term investments. We invest in our 401k, we invest in our dream homes and our dream cars. We invest in a relationship that we believe will go the distance. And yet, we never think to invest in one of the most vital aspects of that relationship — our dream sex life. We focus so intently on the other pieces of the puzzle, and let sex just fade into the background without even realizing how important it really is. Read more

How to Keep the Passion Alive in a LDR

Dear Emily, I’ve never been a big believer in long distance relationships, but I just found out that my boyfriend of a year is going to have to move out of state for his job. He’ll will be gone for at least 6 months, possibly even a year. I don’t want to call it quits and neither does he, but we both have our doubts on how to make this work. Trust is not the issue, I’m more worried about losing the passion we currently have. How can we keep up the intimacy when we’re literally thousands of miles away? Sincerely, Long Distance Doubtful Read more

Your Sexy Holiday Survival Kit

The holiday season is now upon us, and with it comes the inevitable heaping of holiday stress. What was once the most wonderful time of year has now become the most draining. There is nothing romantic or magical about mandatory office potlucks, overcrowded shopping malls and expensive trips home for the holidays — It turns out that Love Actually was actually full of crap. Read more

5 Hot New Ways To Touch Your Man

Dear Emily, I recently started dating a new guy who is really great in bed. I’ve been in relationships where I felt like my pleasure wasn’t a priority, but this guy loves to make me feel good — and he does, frequently! Now I want to return the favor. The problem is, I’ve only got a few tricks up my sleeve and he has seen them all. So besides the usual hand jobs and blow jobs, what’s something I can do to really amp up the pleasure for my new beau? How can I wow him in the bedroom? Read more

Ask Emily: How to Get ‘Ready’ to Masturbate

Dear Emily, I have a problem with masturbation — I can’t do it. It’s not that I’m a prude about masturbation. Believe me, I have tried time and time again! I know what I’m supposed to do and I get how to do it, I’ve masturbated in front of a partner before and it was GREAT. But when it’s me by myself, I just can’t seem to get into it or even get to a place where it feels good. Since I’m doing the actual touching part the right way, I know it has to be something about my mindset. What am I doing wrong? Read more