Tag Archives: Dating Help

Inside Your Dating Bubble

I live in Los Angeles, and in Los Angeles right now there's this gigantic real estate bubble going on. Prices are through the roof again. Prices have been so hot you don't even know what to do. You have to sit on the sidewalk, and you wait. You wait for the prices to go down, fill your life with other things, see what's going to happen. Kind of sounds like dating. [caption id="attachment_17978" align="alignright" width="300"] Inside Your Dating Bubble[/caption]There's a dating bubble that exists. Read more

Why the third date is the most important date

Most of my single girlfriends get really nervous for first dates. And of course that’s understandable. First dates can be mega stressful. But, they’re actually not that important in the scheme of things. If a first date goes badly, there’s nothing on the line. Sure, you’ve wasted your time, but there’s not a ton of emotion that you’ve invested into this person. You can walk away completely unscathed. If a third date goes poorly, it feels a lot more high stakes. And I actually think a third date is the most important date of a relationship. Here’s why. Read more

Why Dating Makes No Sense

I’m sitting here with my friend Alex who is also a dating coach, and we’re talking about how dating makes absolutely no sense. Read more

How to Deal with a Cancelled Date

You have a date planned. For some women, that means prep starts up to a week before with waxing and peels. For others, it could mean just a restless night of sleep due to first date nerves. Some women might get up early and blow out their hair before work so they can be date ready right at 5pm. Other women might spend their lunch Google stalking their set up. No matter who you are, if you have a date, there’s some sort of pre-date ritual you go through. And it’s a real buzzkill when you’re all amped up for a date and the guy gets in touch to cancel. Here’s how to deal. Read more

The Cringe – I Actually Dated… HIM

We'll go ahead and blame youth and inexperience on this, but have you ever sat back and looked at an ex you don't even have an ounce of feelings for on facebook and think (why you even looked you have no clue)…"wait a minute… I dated him… like, actually dated him...". You start to feel like that took place in a different lifetime or alternate universe. You go to take a good hard look in the mirror and believe that there is no physical possible way the girl staring back at you actually is the same girl that dated said guy. Read more

What Happened to the Break Up

The best story ever told was between someone’s fingertip and their beloved’s skin- a love story of some sort or the tale of two individuals coming together. The only thing more epic than the beginning of a love story is the ending- the final touch or the end of the caress. In today’s society, it seems as though the only thing being touched is the screen on a smart phone to start a text message, and sometimes, the ending of an affair isn’t even granted that courtesy. Read more