Category Archives: The Men’s Room – Love and Relationship Advice From a Man For Women

Why Older Men Date Younger Women

Do you want to know why older men date younger women? It’s because they're less of a pain in the ass. I can't be any more blunt than that. Younger women are appreciative of the experience they are getting with an older man. Read more

7 Ways To Get Your Man To Feel Romantic

Women ask me all the time, "What do men find romantic?" It's interesting. There are a lot of women who think that all men (as a gender) are not romantic. I also get a lot of women who email me and say something like, "I wish my boyfriend was more romantic." Let me tell you something. There are also a lot of men who wish their girlfriends are more romantic. For those women out there who are looking to be more romantic for your man, or to really light a fire in your relationship, here are seven quick tips on how to get your man to feel romantic Read more

Dear Future Lover…

Be available. How many of you have written letters to your future lover? How many of you have written to your future partner? How many of you have written letters to your future wife or your future husband? Sounds kind of corny in a way to most of you, right? But if you don't write a letter to your future lover or your future partner, how are they ever going to energetically receive it? I was sitting at lunch today with my friend, Brad. Read more

Why Dating A Married Man Is Romance Ghetto

How many of you have dated married men? I hear this all the time. “I've waited four years for him to leave his wife.” “I know he's going to leave his wife soon, he promises.” Some men even put up their lover in an apartment so they can have it when they want. But listen. You are never, ever, allowed to date a married man ever again. And I want to tell you why. First off, you are going into a triangle. A triangle of doom. Read more

Why Men Watch Porn

Here’s something I'd say to just about every single man I’ve coached in my 20 years of coaching. With every single one of them, I have this conversation, and I’ve had it so many times I'm almost blue in the face. Do you watch porn? How often do you masturbate? And you're going to go on porn detox. Read more

How, Why, And What To Text A Man

I want every woman to read this and every man to shake their head and go oh, man, I can't believe he’s going there. Look, I know the majority of women out there would prefer a phone call over a text, to be able to hear somebody's voice, to be able to hear the sound of the voice and be able to connect to the voice. But texting is kind of here to stay for the time being, and just wait until virtual reality. Then texting is gone. Read more