Women ask me all the time, “David, why do men go cold? I’ve been seeing this guy. It’s been going great, and I thought he liked me. Now he isn’t answering my calls or texts. I just don’t get it. What’s gone wrong?”
And the thing is, there could be a dozen reasons why a man goes cold on you. He could be scared of commitment, he could be a player, he could be married, or perhaps something in your behavior pushed him away.
The thing is, what most women do when a man goes cold on them, is they start to analyze everything. They start to look for reasons why he’s gone off the radar. Have you done it yourself?
You lay awake at night playing through your time together, trying to figure out if you did or said something wrong. You look through all your old texts looking for some sort of clue as to why he won’t speak to you anymore.
And the more you look for an answer the more confused and depressed you get. You talk to your girlfriends about it over dozens of lunch dates. They all give you an opinion, yet you never get any closer to an answer. You need to stop the madness now. You’re making yourself feel like crap, and more importantly, you’re ruining your chances of meeting an amazing man.
For me, there are 3 things you should do after a man disappears off the radar, and none of them involved driving yourself nuts for weeks on end. Check out the video below and I’ll run through them with you, and explain why it’s so important you move on quickly.
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