In Your Dreams

Let’s Talk About Sex Dreams… Sex With The Boss


Last week we explored what it REALLY means when you have a naughty dream about a co-worker, so the natural progression is that this week we cover the “sex with the boss” dream.

Shagging the boss at night can sure make it difficult to come into work the next day.  If this is the case with you, remember, sex dreams are not necessarily about the person but rather about what he or she represents.  In the case of your boss it is most likely power, authority, management skills, decision making, etc. that you need to merge into your own life.

I dreamt that I was at a casino with my boss.  He told me there was an urgent situation he needed my help with and took me into some back room and we then proceeded to have sex, which was very enjoyable.  I was disgusted and embarrassed when I woke up.   – Pam 38

The setting of your dream is always a good place to start when analyzing it.  What have you been thinking about “taking a chance” on?  What seems like a “gamble” to you?  Sex with your boss either means you need to unite his decisive and authoritative qualities into your self OR you need to unite with him, have a meeting of the minds, in order to raise the odds of this situation working out.

Pam replies:  I have been thinking about breaking out on my own and starting my own business and be my own boss so this makes perfect sense.  It would indeed be a gamble but my boss is very organized and decisive so if his qualities were my own I think I’ll do well!

If you’ve been having naughty dreams about your boss like Pam has, ask yourself where in your life do you need to take charge? Do you need to be more decisive in your relationship? Do you need to take on the role of boss at home and better manage those unruly kids?  Are you facing a tough decision?  Do you need to fire or get rid of a certain element, person or behavior in your life?  Or perhaps you simply need to merge with your boss psychologically in order to deal with a client or project.

Whatever the case may be, the main thing to remember after waking from a steamy dream about the boss is that NOW is the time to take charge of your life! Whether it’s in the relationship area or some other area of your life, being decisive and authoritative would suit you very well and take you places you never thought you could go.

Have you been having dirty dreams about your boss? Or about someone else that is causing you to scratch your head? Post them in the comments below and I will help you understand why!