Category Archives: The Sex Files with Emily Morse

10 Tips: Kiss Like you Mean It

Pouting lips get ready for a kiss
Some people never learn how to kiss. Or at least they never learn how to adapt their kissing style. You know the ones, their tongues dart down your throat or flaps weakly in your mouth. They kiss you with clenched lips or they open their mouth so wide your face is suctioned into their gaping mouth. It’s not too late to learn how to kiss with style. Here are 10 tips on how to give the perfect kiss. Read more

5 Tips For a First Date

A couple on their first date
We’ve all blurted out something inappropriate on a first date, whether you rehash the time you were stoned and ate your grandma’s Birthday cake, or admit you got dumped by your last three partners for being too needy. Of course, that is not to say you shouldn’t be yourself. Just follow these 5 Tips for a First Date and you should be okay! Unless you have an incredibly dull personality (just kidding, you’re great).  Read more

What He’s Thinking vs. What She’s Thinking During Sex

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Top 5 Vibrators for Couples on Valentine’s Day

If you’re nervous about inviting a third into the bedroom you’ve probably been asking yourself these questions: Will it hurt our relationship? Will it come between us and destroy what we have? Will we ever be able to enjoy sex just the two of us again? Calm down. Pour yourself a glass of vino and get some perspective. We’re talking about a vibrator here, not a threesome with another person. Besides, why get roses and chocolate for Valentine’s Day when you can have multiple orgasms? Celebrate V-day with your partner and one of these vibrating lovers. Read more

Top 5 Vibrators for Singles for Valentine’s Day (a.k.a. Singles Awareness Day)

You know those friends who won’t stop talking about their boyfriends? They go on and on about how he has the perfect penis. Their boyfriend is supposedly the most attentive, loving creature, and is the best at oral sex. “Someday you’ll understand.” The next time they want to tell you about their romantic Valentine’s Day plans and “perfect” sex life, tell them about your night. Eight orgasms in a half-hour. Maybe someday they’ll understand. Who needs a boyfriend when you can have seven inches of silicone, eight pulsation patterns, and six hours of battery life? Here are the 5 of the best boyfriends vibrators for all you amazing single ladies. Read more

How to approach Women (or Men!)

a man flirts with a woman at a bar

Dear Emily,

How do I approach women? Growing up in SF during the seventies was not great for a man’s sense of masculine self, hearing what “pigs” men are. I choke all the time, even when I know a woman is into me…It’s like the Clockwork Orange treatment. Thanks, George Read more