Dear Emily,
What are your thoughts on morning sex when one person isn’t a morning person? My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but he gets up early for work and sometimes tries to initiate morning sex. I have never been a morning person, and until I get a cup of coffee, I am not very nice. We have had morning sex before and it was great, but I feel like he would like to do it more often. What would you suggest?
Thanks,
Sherri
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Let me guess, either you or your partner wants more or less sex. This is a common case of “mismatched libidos.” And more common than you think. But what to do about it?
I know, it wasn’t that way at the beginning: you had sex like rabbits and couldn’t wait to pull each others clothes off at every turn and were always ready for action. Then, some time passed, maybe you moved in together, had some kids or got busy with your lives. Happens. But how do you keep sex a priority in the relationship? We discuss this very common issue on this weeks podcast. Read more
Dear Emily,I am 28 years old and I got married 5 years ago. I had never had sex before my marriage. I love my husband and we usually have sex twice a week. He always reaches orgasm and is always very happy, however, from the first time we had sex in our relationship, I’ve been unable to reach internal orgasm through intercourse. He always helps me reach orgasm by stimulating my clitoris with his hand. I reach my orgasm, but it doesn’t make me feel fully satisfied and I don’t like it. I like to reach orgasm internally, and reaching orgasm by his hand leaves me with the same feeling of masturbation. We’ve tried many different positions, but we haven’t been able to find an answer. Please help! Thanks a lot in advance, look forward to hearing from you.
Regards,
Molly
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