The Sex Files with Emily Morse

What He’s Thinking vs. What She’s Thinking During Sex

In a perfect world, couples would make love everyday and each session would end with simultaneous orgasms. In reality, he’s thinking, “Please, let me get through the next seven minutes without orgasming,” while she’s thinking, “Please, just this once let me have an orgasm during sex!” It takes men an average of five to six minutes to reach orgasm, while it takes women on average 15 to 20 minutes. Luckily, there are things you can do without having to conjure up the image of your Great-Aunt with the furry mustache. Slow down, change sex positions, provide more clitoral simulation (use a vibrator during sex!) and use a mild desensitizing spray like Promescent. Happy orgasming!

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