Tag Archives: orgasms

How to Help My Partner Last Longer in Bed

Dear Emily, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and love him to bits. He's great! The only thing that kinda gets me down is that he doesn't last as long as he used to. He says that he's just too turned on, which I guess I understand, but he doesn't try to help me finish. What can I do to help him last longer? And how can I get him to understand that he should be helping ME orgasm too, not rolling over and passing out? Read more

Ask Emily: Is a Casual Sex Relationship Right for You?

Dear Emily, About 5 years ago, I had a casual sex relationship with a man and it was the best sex I’ve ever had. We went on a few dates, but there was no intellectual connection. And that was fine, since neither of us were looking for anything serious. Fast forward to now: I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and recently texted my old booty-call asking if he is single. He is, but he mentioned that he is looking to change that. Now, I know we don’t have a connection, we will never have a relationship and we’ve both said we’re over the casual sex thing. However, I haven't been physically satisfied for over five years with anyone except for him. Read more

Ask Emily – Help! I’ve Been Faking O’s

Hi Emily, I've been with my boyfriend for around 8 months and have still never had a REAL orgasm during sex. And as if this isn’t bad enough, my partner has no idea, because I’ve gotten into the habit of faking it. I know, it’s terrible! Now I’m tired of pretending and am ready for the real deal, but don’t know how to confess my sin. I want to be honest with him, because it’s not fair to him or to me, but I feel like it will break him if I tell him the truth. How do I approach this? Thanks, Alexa Read more

A sex expert shares how to get your man to give you the ultimate orgasm

Let’s talk about sex, baby! Specifically, let’s talk about your orgasm and how to get your man to give you the best one of your life. Because, yeah, sex is about intimacy and creating a bond with your partner, but it’s also about having your favorite person in the world make you feel as good as possible. So, I talked to my favorite sexologist on the planet, Dr. Emily Morse, to get some tips to help your man give you the ultimate orgasm. She’s the host of the Sex With Emily podcast and author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, which is a must-read in my opinion! Read more

Get More Foreplay

Young couple engage in foreplay
Are you dating a guy who’s not as into foreplay as you’d like him to be? Recently I was talking to a friend of mine. She was with a guy she really liked, and he was good to her too. “But here’s the thing David.” She said. “He never goes down on me. I just don’t understand it. We’ve been together nearly two years and I really love him, but I’d love him to give me some great oral sex sometimes. How can I get him to give me foreplay?” Read more

What He’s Thinking vs. What She’s Thinking During Sex

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