Category Archives: Dating

Advice on where to meet people, online dating, matchmaking and everything in between.

6 Tips to First Date Success

Sometimes, the hardest part about dating isn’t finding a date, but knowing what to do once you are on it. First dates can be especially tricky. Everyone feels nervous and worried about making a good impression. After hearing thousands of dating stories, some more successful than others, I thought I’d share some top tips to ensure your first date goes smoothly, and that you make the best impression possible. Read more

How To Deal With A Cheater

A man cheats on his girlfriend in the park
What do you do if your boyfriend cheated on you, but you still want to be with him?
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5 Signs You Didn’t Get Laid on Valentine’s Day

Man is frustrated on bed that he didn't get laid
Listen up, fellas. I know you hate Valentine’s Day and that it’s a holiday created by a card company and blah blah blah. I like to compare Valentine’s Day to the Superbowl. A lot of women, including myself, could care less about football and in particular the Superbowl. But if I’m in a relationship with someone, I show up to the Superbowl party, root for the same team as my man and bring over some bomb dip (because I’m really good at making dips). I do this because I know it’s important to my man, not because I think the Superbowl is important. This same rule applies for Valentine’s Day. We know that you think it’s a stupid holiday, but it’s important to us ladies, so suck it up for one day and get over it. Read more

The Top 5 Benefits of Being in Love

A couple revels in their love for one another
I chose this profession because I love love. I love being in love, talking about love, and helping people find love. My theory is: love makes people the best individuals that they can be. I strongly believe that those who are in a connected, loving relationship are more productive, better citizens, and more capable of making the world a positive place. During these next few days leading up to Valentine’s Day, I’d like to take a moment to reflect on the amazing benefits of love. Read more

Guys don’t like being hunted, so girls, why are you hunting?

A girl on the prowl, hunting for a man
I often wonder this question when I scope out the scene at a nightclub or while watching reality TV like The Real World or The Real Housewives franchise, or even in my personal life observing strangers, friends and friends of friends interacting with guys. I can’t help but notice one common denominator between them all: that more times than not, the girls were pursuing the guys first, or what I like to call ‘hunting’. And I always think the same thing to myself, ‘if only she knew what she is doing is actually a big turn off’. In this article I’m going to tell you why no girl should never ever, ever be a ‘hunter’. Read more

There is no Magic Formula to Finding the One

Woman looks for a formula to find love
The first question I get asked by new clients is always, “How many dates will it take until I find the one?” Of course, I would love to answer them immediately with something super specific like, “It will take 3 days and 4 hours!” or “On your third date, you will fall in love.” Unfortunately, the only actual answer I have is I don’t know. Read more