Tag Archives: single

How to deal with the question “Why are you still single?”

I’d love to say that the annoying question “Why are you still single?” comes up only on holidays, but every single girl out there knows that’s not the case. This inane question pops its ugly head out all the time. Family events. Friend gatherings. Business dinners. Even first dates. Why, oh, why would someone want to make you feel like shit about being single on a first date? He got to go out with you because you’re single! Sheesh! Anyway, the big question (after you get asked the annoying question) is how to deal with it? Well, I have some tips. Read more

5 Reasons being single in the summer is the best

I have a ton of single girlfriends right now and most of them are on a mission to find a man. But, one of my closest friends just told me that she’s actively trying to stay single until the end of the summer and I loved hearing that. It made me realize all of the fabulous reasons being single in the summer is the best. Here are some of them. Read more

What to do when your family is annoying about you being single

Every single girl has been asked annoying questions about her relationship status by her family. It’s just one (of the many!) terrible parts of being single. (Of course, there are awesome parts of being single, too!) Sometimes, though, it goes past the point of pesky and can feel like an out and out attack. It can be super rough. I’ve been through it several times with well-meaning (but incredibly annoying) aunts and family friends and I have a few tips on how to deal when your family isn’t supportive of your single status. Read more

The Number One Reason Why You’re Still Single

I'm about to expose the number one reason why you're still single. I'm going to do so and you're going to listen. You're going to listen hard and you're going to change the way you do things starting immediately. The story I'm about to share with you might sound a little egotistical. It really isn't. It's to prove a point. Read more

How to Have Fun as a Single Girl at a Family Wedding

Is anyone else dealing with back-to-back weddings this summer? I am and so many of my girlfriends are too. And weddings are of course super happy occasions. I totally live for weddings! But, even I’ll admit, they’re a little happier when you’re in a couple. When you’ve got a man, a wedding is basically a big, fancy date that someone else is paying for. When you’re single, they’re kinda a big fat reminder of how alone you are…with cake. And when it’s a family wedding, the fun factor can be turned down even more because your weird Aunt Helene is sucking the air out of the room. Trust me, I know the story. (If you’re reading this, hi, Aunt Helene!) Well, here’s how to have fun at a crappy family wedding if you’re single. Read more

Is Being Single Totally Exhausting?

Frustrated single woman bangs her head against the wall
Lately, I've heard a lot of talk about how being single is exhausting...no surprise there! Repeatedly getting your hopes up before a date, only to have it be a total disaster can start to weigh on you, and between all of the online dating sites, apps and communication (texting, emails, gchat, phone calls...) you have to manage, dating can start to feel like a chore. If dating is just one more thing on your to-do list, and exasperates you rather than excites you, you may have a case of singles burnout on your hands. Here is how to get back to a place where dating is more exciting than exhausting. Read more