Tag Archives: sex

Are you two having enough sex?

An age old question people in relationships wonder is “Are we having enough sex?” It’s hard to gauge what’s normal in relationships because I doubt most people are accurate in reporting their sex stats. Plus, who really cares what’s normal? What’s matter is what’s enough sex for your relationship, which may be way more or way less than any other “normal” couple. So the real question here is are you two having enough sex for you two? Here’s how to tell. Read more

3 Things you’re not doing but should to improve your sex life

Let me guess. Your sex life is great, but it could be better, right? I think everyone feels that way. Sex is super, but very few people feel like true experts. From my conversations with friends and clients, it seems like even when people want to improve their sex live, they’re not quite sure how to. They think you have to be open to crazy different sex or at least really flexible to switch things up and make an improvement. Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case at all. I have three very easy things that could improve anyone’s sex life. Read more

Ask Emily: Where the Heck is My G-Spot?

Hi Emily, After listening to your show regularly, I decided that it’s time for me to find my G-spot! Based on your suggestions, I have been trying to pay attention to my body during sex, and I noticed that the spot that feels really good each time my boyfriend thrusts in and out is actually located on the BACK wall of my vagina. I know you always say that the G-spot is located on the FRONT wall, so what am I feeling? Could my G-spot be in the wrong (or a different) place? Thanks, Loyal Listener Lauren Read more

When Is The Right Time To Have Sex?

There's a question that I get asked all the time at my seminars for women. It’s one of the biggest questions, but there’s not one person in the world that can tell you the right answer. When is the right time to have sex with a man? Read more

Ask Emily: How to get Comfortable with Going Down

Hi Emily, I’m 24 years old and the guy I’m dating is my first sexual partner—so I’m a newbie at everything but I’m pretty open to learning and trying new things. I know he really wants me to give him a blow job, but I don't know how! I have a ton of fear around it. I really want to try it, but I can't get over that scared feeling I get when I think about doing it, partly because I don’t know what I’m doing but also because I want us both to enjoy the experience. What can I do to get over the fear and become more comfortable with giving him a blow job? And how can I make it a good one? Read more

Back Seat, Windows Up? Your Guide to Hot Car Sex

Dear Emily, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have been doing the long distance relationship thing for the past year. Luckily, we have the whole summer to spend together! We’ve made a ton of fun plans, including a 12 hour road trip up the coast of California… Which brings me to my question. Read more