Tag Archives: Dating Help
Let's be open today.
Let's be honest. I want you to raise your hand if you really like the entire process of dating – everything about it, from the ghosting to the benching.
Benching, by the way, is putting somebody on the sidelines and making you date other people and deciding whether or not you want to go see them again while they're in reserve.
Flaking, texting, misconnection… How many of you truly, really like dating? Raise your hands. Read more
Hey single girls! This one’s for you. If you’re sitting there wondering why you’re single, keep on reading. I’ll tell you! It’s because you’re not doing these five very simple things. If you do all five of my recommendations below, I’ll guarantee you find yourself with a great man in a great relationship in now time. So, let’s get to it.
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At brunch this weekend, one of my girlfriends was beside herself because her man hadn’t said he loved her yet. She’s normally bright and really full of life, but she was limp and sad throughout the entire brunch. I assumed that she told him that she loved him and he hadn’t said it back, even after she gave him time. And I was really sad for her. It feels so crappy when a feeling as important as love isn’t reciprocated. Then, it came out that she hadn’t even said “I love you,” yet. She was waiting for him to say it first and that’s what she was getting upset about! Why hadn’t she said those magic words? What was she waiting for? Well, she was waiting for him to say it first because she thought that’s how it’s supposed to be. She thought if the woman said “I love you” first, it kinda didn’t count. Read more
The key to flirting is to have an inquisitive mind. Having an inquisitive mind is having a flirtatious mind.
Flirting is really all about curiosity.
It's amazing that how many people don't know how to flirt, or choose not to.
When I'm on Bumble (which by the way is fun), or any other dating app, or any other way to meet, it's amazing how many people don't ask questions at all. Read more
Let's face it: we're all a judge.
We're reading an online profile, somebody writes something and we immediately judge them.
We text them, and they tell us that they're watching TV, and we imagine and picture a life of just watching television 24/7.
We're all judgers of so many things when we first connect with somebody.
Or more importantly, when we first eliminate somebody.
I'm guilty of it. Read more
Getting dumped is never a good feeling. In fact, dumpage often leads to some of the worst feelings a human heart can experience. But, that doesn’t mean getting dumped is necessarily all bad. Just because it feels terrible doesn’t mean that nothing good can come from it. You can learn some pretty valuable lessons about yourself from getting dumped. Here are a few of them. Read more
