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The Power of Curiosity

curiouscatsThe #1 Reason Being Curious Will Find You Love

Today I’m going to share the #1 reason why curiosity is the key to finding love.

Do you remember when you were a kid?

You were curious about everything right? When a 4-year old walks around they’re asking questions the whole time.
“Why is it cloudy? Why are their shoes like that? Why is the lion sleeping? Why does that snake look funny?”

Kids question everything. They ask questions because nothing is off limits to them.

Every day they wake up and it’s another day to learn something new. Every day is another day to grow and develop. Sometimes they even ask the same questions over again because it doesn’t quite make sense to them yet.

That’s what’s so beautiful about children; their innocence and curiosity about everything. That’s how you should be when you’re on a date. You want to be curious about someone. You want to ask them a lot of ‘why’s.’

Uncovering the mystery of someone is one of the sexiest things we have in life. Connecting with somebody, and being curious about them is so sexy. I’m not just talking about sex. I’m talking about their mind and finding out how it works. When you’re with someone on a date you want to be curious about what makes them tick, how they became who they are, and what made them who they are now.

I always believe in asking a lot of questions, allowing somebody to talk, and allowing somebody to share, because in those moments of allowing somebody to share, you’re going to find out many things about them.

The more curious you become, the more attracted you become to them, and the more attractive you become to THEM.

So when you’re out there dating, be curious. Be curious about somebody. Be curious about what makes them who they are.

Be curious about how they kiss. Be curious about how they feel. Be curious about everything they love. Become that child again. Become that innocent, beautiful child that asks lots of amazing questions in wonderment of who that person is in front of them. When we open our curious mind, we’re actually opening up our heart to feel. We’re opening up a channel of energy that will actually enable you to date and meet spectacular people.

The power of curiosity is something I want you to bring into all aspects of your life. Especially your dating life. Watch what happens when you become curious about the men you’re dating. I promise you, it will change EVERYTHING!

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