Tag Archives: sex advice

Sex Goals Every Couple Should Commit To And Stick To

We, as adults, are all about long-term investments. We invest in our 401k, we invest in our dream homes and our dream cars. We invest in a relationship that we believe will go the distance. And yet, we never think to invest in one of the most vital aspects of that relationship — our dream sex life. We focus so intently on the other pieces of the puzzle, and let sex just fade into the background without even realizing how important it really is. Read more

When To Have Sex With The New Guy You Want To Date

Without a doubt relationship-oriented single ladies have lots of questions in the early stages of dating. From what to wear on the first date to when to text him back, they want to do everything they possibly can to move things forward with the new guy they really like. Perhaps, the biggest question on their mind: When should you sleep with a guy for the first time? Read more

How To Have Sex When You Don’t Feel Great About Your Body

Oh, honey. I feel you. I really, really do. I think most women and probably a good chunk of men have felt the pain you’re in. Whether you’re dealing with a post-partum body, a few extra pounds, boobs you don’t think are big enough, thigh you don’t think are small enough or just a general “society is forcing me to hate myself so I do” crummy-ness, it can make getting intimate and feeling sexy seem very, very unappealing. But, no matter the shape or size of your body or how you feel about the thing, I know one thing about your body…it wants sex. It’s a natural thing that every body wants. So, don’t deprive it of this very basic necessity. Here’s how you can have sex when you’re not in love with your body. Read more

Summer Lovin’: 3 Reasons Why This Is Your Dating Season

There's nothing worse than standing in the grocery checkout line during the summer. Every magazine appears to be staring you in the face, shouting, "Hey, it's bikini season, do you really think you should be buying that pint of Chunky Monkey?" You eye your cart and consider removing the offensive items, wondering if it's all worth it anyway. Who is going to see you naked this summer? You haven't met anyone new since that jerk over the holidays, but Ben & Jerry have always been there for you. Read more

Deep Breathing For Better Sex

Stop the O-Blocking: Breathe Deeply For Better Sex Q: Dear Emily In the past year, I have been on a mission to have regular orgasms and since I’m currently single, this has been mostly a solo mission. I’ve been taking all of your advice: I've got the sex toys and the lube, I know where all my hot spots are and I know how to touch them, but I’m still only orgasming a third of the time. It’s so frustrating! Sometimes I will be right on the cusp of climaxing, but Read more

5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Ask For Sex

Ladies, it constantly astounds me how many of you don't think you're attractive enough or confident enough to ask a guy for sex. The way some of you go about it you think you have to be Gisele Bundchen to have the courage tell a guy you want to sleep with him. I'm here to shatter this pre-conceived notion. Read more