Tag Archives: Being Single

3 Hard truths single girls need to hear

Single girls, I feel you. Big time. In fact, I am one of you! I know it’s not easy. Being single can totally suck. But, single girls, we need to stop whining. My single girlfriends can sound like bummer broken records, repeating phrases like, “I hate being single,” “Where are all the good guys?” and “I have no idea why I can’t find a man!” Girls, we’ve got to knock it off. Instead of complaining, you need to be absorbing these hard truths. Read more

5 Things to do when you’re the only single friend

When you’re in a friend group, things seem to happen to everyone at the same time. Everyone gets mono at the same time, everyone gets a new job at the same time and everyone gets a boyfriend at the same time. Or, almost everyone. When you’re the friend in the group who’s off schedule, it can feel really lonely. The loneliness is especially noticeable when they’re all in a relationship section of their schedule and you’re in a single part of yours. Fear not, sweet thing. Read more

3 Reasons single ladies should date younger

I’m not sure if it’s something in the air or what, but I feel like all of my single girlfriends are really hitting a wall when it comes to dating recently. Every single one of them! One of my besties actually said to me the other day, “I think I’ve dated every man on the internet. There’s no one left!” So, I looked at her apps and saw that her search criteria were set to search for men her age or older. I had to seriously convince her to give me control of her apps, but she finally caved. I tweaked her age specifications to make her open to dudes 15 years younger and suddenly, it was a whole new world of dating! A week and two first dates later and my friend was converted to younger guys. Read more

5 Reasons being single in the summer is the best

I have a ton of single girlfriends right now and most of them are on a mission to find a man. But, one of my closest friends just told me that she’s actively trying to stay single until the end of the summer and I loved hearing that. It made me realize all of the fabulous reasons being single in the summer is the best. Here are some of them. Read more

What happens if you don’t get married

My big goal when working with most of my clients is to get them happily married. I have a very high success rate and spend a lot of Saturday nights dancing at my clients’ weddings. It’s really fun! That being said, marriage isn’t in the cards for everyone. Or, it isn’t in the cards right now for everyone. I’m 54 years old and I’ve never been married. I know my soul mate man is out there and I’m learning a lot of lessons on my journey to meet him. But, until then, I’m single and unmarried and actually very, very happy. So, I wanted to write Read more

What to do when your family is annoying about you being single

Every single girl has been asked annoying questions about her relationship status by her family. It’s just one (of the many!) terrible parts of being single. (Of course, there are awesome parts of being single, too!) Sometimes, though, it goes past the point of pesky and can feel like an out and out attack. It can be super rough. I’ve been through it several times with well-meaning (but incredibly annoying) aunts and family friends and I have a few tips on how to deal when your family isn’t supportive of your single status. Read more