I’m somewhat of a repository for relationship complaints and secrets of all kinds. Even couples I don’t work with professionally feel like they can spill their secrets to me. It’s just a hazard of the job, I guess. One of the biggest “secrets” I hear from longtime married women is that their husbands don’t touch them any more. It’s really common. I hear from friends who haven’t had sex with their husband in months, some even years. And several women have told me that even if their husbands want to have sex, they don’t want to cuddle or hold hands any more. Obviously, this is a painful realization to have about your relationship, but there are explanations for it. Read more
When women sign up to my newsletter, I always send them a welcome email, joker123 asking the one thing they’d really me to help them with. Most of the time, the answer comes back the same. “I’d like to learn how to understand men better. I want to know how to read what he’s thinking and feeling.”
So, I thought spaceman slot today I’d look at something I know confuses most women about men. Why do men tease? Read more
Dating can be rough sometimes.
You met a really great man.
His words soothe your soul.
You love the way he talks and what he's all about.
He's a really good looking guy.
But you're not feeling the attraction. You don't feel triggered. You don't really want to kiss him. You don't want him touching you. You don't want him making love to you. Read more
Men, this is not the complicated formula you learned in statistics class. It’s time to simplify things. While most guys do the same thing with women, it’s your job to stand out and give her something to remember you by. Do something that will make you unforgettable. Subconsciously, this shows her that you are different from the rest of the pack, since she can’t seem to get you off of her mind.
I’ve constructed 5 tips for you to use that will make her remember you and help you stand out amongst the sea of other dudes: Read more
So you're dating a guy.
On paper things seem to be going fine. Everything is great. You're meeting, you're talking, you're hanging, you're enjoying his company. The attraction is building inside you.
You're starting to like him. Alright, maybe you're getting a little nervous. Maybe you have one or two freak out moments. Read more
Have you heard of “benching” yet? It’s the new ghosting, but slightly different. Benching is when a guy is keeping you on the bench, but not playing you. He occasionally texts and seems kind of engaged, but never actually makes plans. Or if he does make plans, he doesn’t follow through with them and winds up canceling last minute. Sound familiar? I’m guessing it does since this is very typical guy behavior. If you date enough, you’ll definitely experience it. Here’s what to do if benching happens to you. Read more
