Friends, Romans, lonely men, listen to me. There is no such thing as a woman who is out of your league. I truly do believe that any man can get any woman with the right strategy. All you need is some guidance, and the woman of your dreams can be the woman in your arms. Here’s what you have to do:
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and this romance won’t be either. Even if you get rebuffed the first few times, don’t let it get you down. Try to figure out why, address the issue and then try again. Did you ask her out last minute? Then plan ahead next time. Did you come on too strong? Then go for a more casual approach. A lot of women will say yes to any first date with a guy they’re not afraid to be alone with. If she’s afraid to be alone with you, then it’s not that she’s out of your league, buddy. It’s that you’re freaking her out. You need a different angle.
A lot of men think they can warm up their dream chick by becoming her friend first and then working their way up to a romantic level. Survey says: EHHHH! Once you’re in the friend zone, it’s like digging yourself out of quicksand to hop over to romance land. Make sure your initial moves with her are openly romantic. Don’t invite her to hang out with friends. Make your interactions real, true dates. You have to send a clear message.
I know you think you’re acknowledging the elephant in the room by telling her that she’s out of your league. But guess what? She isn’t thinking about the discrepancies in your looks or your paychecks or your educations. She’s thinking, could this guy be my man? And no one wants to call someone her man who doesn’t have confidence. Just own it. You’re on a date with a fantastic lady. Be proud of yourself, and be quiet about your insecurities. Pretend they don’t exist.
Tell her she’s gorgeous. Tell her how much fun she is. Make her feel like a million bucks. In her league or not, it’s rare when a fellow really knows how to make a girl feel wonderful. If you can make her feel comfortable and confident when you’re together, then she won’t know what league either of you are in. She’ll just know she’s in first-date heaven. You’ll stand out to her.