Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

5 Gifts any man will love

woman surprised man with a holiday gift
Fa la la la la! It’s holiday time and I couldn’t be more excited! It’s probably no surprise to you that I’m a big gift giver. I do everything big! I la-la-la-love giving gifts to the special man in my life, but sometimes it can be hard to find a good dude gift. I mean, guys have it so easy! All women want is something sparkly with a heart felt card. But guys are tougher. So, if you’re having trouble finding your man the perfect gift, here’s a quick cheat sheet of gifts any man will love. Read more

Why Moms Make Perfect Girlfriends

a mother makes a great girlfriend
You know I love women, but there’s one particular group of women I’m especially fond of, and that’s Moms. The other night was a perfect example of why I think Moms are so amazing. I was out with two clients, and my close friend and fellow coach John Keegan. We decided to eat at a lovely place in Venice called, “Café Gratitude.” It’s a vegan restaurant. I’ve been there before and the food is always good. It’s the kind of place everyone kisses each other and has deep meaningful conversations. Most these conversations end abruptly when someone who’s on some angel path comes along, and diverts the conversation in a completely different direction. Read more

#AskPatti: Lying guys, talking your number, guys with “friends” & more!

Guys, wasn’t it just Thanksgiving last week? How do I suddenly feel like I’m behind in holiday shopping? I have a really long list this year, because I have so many people who have been very, very nice to me. But, before I get back out there shopping, I wanted to take a second an answer your #AskPatti questions. Here we go! Read more

You Should Never Be OFF Dating

Anxious woman says she is taking a break from men
Have you ever caught yourself saying things like, “I’m not into men right now. I’m taking a break from dating. I’m staying single?” Have you said to your friends, “I just can’t be bothered with relationships anymore?” Why did you say these things? Did you seriously want time on your own, or did something happen in your past that made you feel like that? Read more

“I Will Make Them Understand”

Have you seen the movie The Little Mermaid? One of the best Disney movies of all time because it had so many great social statements. No, not that a woman that can turn into an octopus and take over a mermaid empire. Though that sounds like fun. But one of the best lines, and it's something a lot of people go into their relationships with: “I will make them understand”. Read more

Stay Merry During the Holidays

Woman attempt to stay merry during the holidays
If only it was as simple as putting “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” on your list to Santa. How cool would it be if he or she actually came wrapped in a red bow? From commercials to songs to couples walking hand in hand seemingly everywhere you look, ‘tis the season for romance. But what if you don’t have a significant other? You can still make it the most wonderful time of the year. Read more