I honestly don’t know what is worse, a guy going in for the kiss too soon or not going in soon enough.
What I do know, is that if a guy comes into the personal space territory when he is not wanted there yet, well that can be a big problem. Barf.
It’s totally weird for everyone, including the people that happen to witness it. At least the bystanders got a good laugh out of it, the two people involved, not so much.
So now you may ask yourself, “When is the right time to go in for the kiss?”
When is the right time to do anything in life?
Seriously, have you ever asked yourself that? When do I get a dog, when do I have a baby, when am I ready for a relationship again.
I have said it before and I will say it again, “There is no time like the present.” The answer to the that is completely organic.
Just live in the moment be raw and vulnerable and you will know when you are supposed to make the move.
Men, If you are on a third date and it hasn’t happened yet, you might wanna make the move like yesterday. Just sayin’. If you aren’t sure if she wants it, I can confidently tell you that if she is on a second or third date with you, she’s been waiting for it.
Now it doesn’t have to be all crazy slobber everywhere, tongues licking up, down and all around, just go easy.
Whatever you feel comfortable with. Just be you. Even a peck, just do something for crying out loud.
If it’s a first initial meet and you go for coffee in the afternoon, talk for an hour then you walk her to the parking lot, perhaps the timing is not right for that first kiss yet. Perhaps wait until the ambience is a bit more romantic.
Remember, don’t go too quick, but don’t wait too long either. I know it sounds contradicting, but just relax and try to go with the flow. Good luck! 😉