Have you ever been going down on a guy, and suddenly you start to realize he’s not getting hard for you? I bet there were a hundred things going through your mind at that point.
“Why isn’t he turned on by me? What am I doing wrong? Isn’t he attracted to me anymore?”
I was talking to a client of mine about this the other day. He asked me, “David, sometimes a woman will be going down on me and I won’t be able to get hard. I’m fine when we’re having sex. What’s wrong with me? Has it happened to you before?”
I couldn’t help but smile and say, “Yes. It’s happened to me more than once too!” Read more
I absolutely love bringing people together. Even before I made it my career, matching up my single friends was always so thrilling and rewarding for me.
If you enjoy spreading love and have a natural matchmaking instinct or if you are constantly nagged by your friends to “set them up with someone good!” here are four factors to consider BEFORE setting up a friend to make sure your match is a success. After all, you want to be the one they thank at their wedding reception! Read more
Attention to all my male readers and the women who love them: Fashion goes a long way when it comes to sex appeal in a man. Think of any man you know, now think of him in a tuxedo. See what I mean? Any and every guy looks better when he’s put a little effort into his getup. So, here are 10 of the men in Hollywood who I think put their ensembles together better than anyone else. This should give you some male style inspiration.
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I get tons of emails from women, but the question I'm asked the most is “How do I know what he’s really thinking?”
“We’ve been going out for a while. He seems to like me. We’ve even started having sex, but suddenly he’s gone cold on me. What’s changed? Did I do something to upset him?”
Well, let’s look at this situation shall we?
You’ve started a relationship with a man. You’ve taken your relationship to the physical stage. And you feel like he was starting to open up to you. Now he’s gone cold, there must be something going on in his head right?
I mean, men don’t just go cold for no reason do they?
Well, I’m going to put you out of your misery and give you the answer to that burning question…
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Living in West Hollywood is amazing. On one block of Santa Monica Blvd. you can grab a drink at the best bars in Boystown. Just north on Sunset, you have some of the greatest restaurants and just down Robertson, you have some of the best shopping in town.
In my fantasy, Channing Tatum and I do all of the above except he pays for everything on his Amex Black Card.
A boy can dream. Read more
I never felt it was fair for someone to be alone if they didn’t want to be. I love love, and have always been obsessed with helping singles find it. From a young age I felt it was my calling to set up friends and acquaintances. As a hobby, I was pretty good at it, and some of my amateur matches actually ended in wonderful marriages.
Taking the road that many find themselves on after high school, I went to college and then on to receive my Masters in Social Work from the University of Michigan. As planned I started my career as a social worker, but after 12 long years in the industry, I found I longed for a change. Instead of damage control, I knew I wanted to focus on the creation and positivity of love.
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