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What to do if you’re in a love triangle

Word on the street is that John Mayer and Katy Perry may be back together. Who knows if that’s true? I certainly don’t know for sure. But, I will say that it’s a scientific fact that John Mayer is the most charming man on the planet. He has a magnetism about him that no woman seems able to resist. Wish he would do some private tutoring for a few of my clients! Anyway, he infamously dated Taylor Swift and then Katy Perry. If you aren’t as into Taylor Swift’s 1989 as I am, you might not know that Taylor and Katy have some serious bad blood between them. (Also, you should definitely get into 1989. It’s such a good album!) John, Katy and Taylor have a classic love triangle going on with a lot of unresolved feelings among them all. And even though these three are megawatt celebrities, the situation is way more common than you probably think. It’s a small, small world and your love relationships and friendships are bound to overlap. If you find yourself in a love triangle situation, here’s what I think you should do. Read more

3 Ways every single girl should spend her long weekend

Presidents’ Day and Valentine’s Day fall over the same weekend this year. For those who are coupled up, that means romantic long weekend trips, lazy afternoons cuddling and basically, just a full extra 24 hours to feel in love. For single girls, an extra day alone over the most romantic weekend of the year could be kinda traumatic. More time to think about being single can be really crappy. Fear not, single gals. I got you! Here’s how you should spend your love weekend. Read more

5 Reasons Valentine’s Day is the perfect night for a first date

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, people! If you’re single, you’ve probably given up on having a romantic V-Day evening with a special someone. Well, don’t give up yet. I have a special suggestion for you! I think you should update your online dating profile, start messaging men and set up a first date with someone who seems fabulous for February 14th. That’s right. You read that correctly. A first date on Valentine’s Day! Here’s why I think it’s a great idea. Read more

How to let him know what you want on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, people. And while I love that there’s an official day of the year to celebrate love, I also know this is basically International Couple Fight Day too. All of the expectation and build up can lead to a lot of hurt feelings and knock down, drag out fights. So, instead of waiting for the day to come with dreams of dozens of roses and fancy dinners and lavish gifts and then when it arrives, being disappointed that you got a box of drug store chocolate and a night of Netflix cuddling, why not let him know what would make you happy on Valentine’s Day? Here’s how.

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5 Things to ask for on Valentine’s Day

Happy almost Valentine’s Day! The lead up to February 14th can be very stressful for couples, especially new couples who haven’t celebrated the holiday together before. There’s a lot of expectation that gets built up. And that expectation normally leads to a lot of let down come the big day. I say avoid that trip to Bummer Town and have a conversation with your boo about what would make you happy on Valentine’s Day. It might ruin the surprise of the day, but it will make both of you a lot more relaxed and able to enjoy the day. So, here are a few things I think you should ask for. Read more

5 Things you should never wear on a first date

The first date outfit stress meltdown! We’ve all been there. Many, many times. Here’s the truth, though. No dude cares about what you’re wearing as much as you do. Really, what you wear barely matters as long as you feel sexy, confident and comfortable. Of course, a dress that shows a little skin doesn’t hurt the situation. There are some things you need to avoid in a first date outfit, though. Here they are. Read more
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