Category Archives: Relationships

Advice on everything related to love and relationships.

How not to ruin new love

Relationship tips for new love
He just said “I love you” and you said it back. You two are officially in love! After the knee-melting first date kiss, this is one of my absolute favorite parts of a relationship. Everything is all flower deliveries, cutesy conversations, and schmoopy boopiness. I love it and I bet you do, too. Most girls do! And if you don’t want to end this new love phase too early, keep a few things in mind. Read more

Love lessons from Hollywood: Kellan Lutz and Sharni Vinson

This week, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes' divorce aside, another one of Hollywood's hot couples is in the hot seat. Kellan Lutz, who showed off his newbie girlfriend Sharni Vinson at The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part I premiere in Los Angeles last year, is rumored to be heading for Splitsville with the Aussie actress. November brings us The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part II. Now, if they want their relationship to make this milestone here's what they need to do. Or rather, what she needs to do. Read more

Playing matchmaker for Katie Holmes

Before the big bad Tom Cruise was in Katie's life, Chris Klein had asked for her hand in marriage. I'm sure it's only a matter of time before the rumors start that they are relighting an old flame. Whether they come true or stay false, the past should stay in the past because relationships usually end for a good reason. Cue three hot male celebs that Katie should keep her eyes on and a few types that she should stay far away from. First things first: Katie should benefit from a dating detox. After a long relationship ends, it's important to do some soul searching and make sure that you know what you want next. After her timeout, these three guys should be on her radar. Read more

Viva Mexico: Why your honeymoon is important

We did it! We finally tied the knot five years and a Sin Halo later. Our wedding was spectacular: We could not have asked for anything better! The ceremony was held at The Carlton NYC in Millesime Restaurant and Lounge. We took photos in Central Park, and then went right back to Millesime for the reception. Our crazy Tim Burton style cake by Cake Alchemy was delicious and our little boy danced the night away with all of our guests. He was Destin’s best man. It was beyond magical... but not quite as magical as the night that followed! *wink* The next day, we took flight for Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, for a honeymoon at the Grand Velas that we will never forget. When we arrived, we were greeted, handed a cigar, a Bird of Paradise and were then whisked off to the resort. The sun was shining, it was hot as Hades’ backyard, but we were married and in love and that was all that mattered. Read more

It’s Twitter chat party: Let’s talk about sex

Hey Tweeties! Today, I am answering all of your steamy sex and relationship questions! Me, my besties Rachel and Destin and my hot assistant Patia are hosting a chat party on Twitter and are ready for a big Q&A love fest. The hashtag of choice? #AskPatti. You don't want to miss it! You can start submitting questions now by commenting here or head straight to my twitter and I will answer them, chat with you and give advice. So, be sure to say what's on your mind. Plus, you may catch your tweeted question on the upcoming season of Millionaire Matchmaker premiering in the Fall. Remember, there's no such as a stupid question. Only sexy ones. Ready... set... Tweet! (Remember to use my Twitter handle and #AskPatti.) Read more

Summertime at casa de Pfaff

Makin' Love with Rachel and Destin
Summer is here at last… and boy is it a hot one! We live out in the fabulous LA Valley so it’s even more sweltering. It’s amazing how it can go from 85 degrees F in central LA to 100 degrees in the Valley! The question is what to do when summer is at its full glory? We have learned how to have fun in the sun in the most creative of ways -- especially when you have a toddler! Let’s talk about your home. We all know that when the pavement is melting, the last place you want to be is outdoors. How about turning your pad into a cool beach oasis? Read more