Dating rules to stay out of the doghouse

As a matchmaker I meet an amazing amount of people. I am constantly networking, bringing in new potential clients, and meeting singles to fill my database. Working with all of these people gives me a sense of what is successful, and what is not when it comes to dating conversation and etiquette. Let me preface this next story by saying that I love my dogs. I could go on and on about all of the amazing things my pets do, but let me tell you, there is a time and a place! Read more

A trip to the supermarket: Pick me up some MILF

It’s Friday night, and you need food. You ask yourself, “Do I really want to deal with going to the market? Maybe I’ll order in instead.” Seriously? Unless you have a smoking hot girlfriend waiting at home wearing a little outfit from Victoria’s Secret, get your ass to the market now. That’s where all the girls are! Read more

Stop Playing Dating Games

Let me ask you a few questions… Have you ever ignored a guy’s text message? Have you ever dropped his calls so you looked busy? Have you put off a date because you told him you were double-booked? Be honest. How many times have you done one of these things? You waited until his third missed call before you bothered to reply to him. You spoke to your friends and they told you to play it cool, and don’t show you’re interested in him. You met a man you liked, and even though he asked you out, you told him you were busy. You wanted to make him wait for you. What happened in the end? He never tried asking you out again. If you really want to find love, you have to stop playing those dating games! Read more

Popcorn for One

In the city of West Hollywood, there is always a multitude of things to do at any given hour of the day. From brunch to shopping, spa appointments to happy hour; one could entertain a small group of tourists without ever leaving the city limits. A quick glance of my daily calendar reads like a 6-year-olds play date schedule: “10am brunch with Adam,” “12pm Boot Camp with Valerie” “3pm Mani/Pedi with Klarissa” At first glance, you would think that this is a fabulous day of pampering and life balance. But a second look reminds me that something very crucial is missing from the picture… “Me” Read more

Why Isn’t He Getting Hard For Me?

Have you ever been going down on a guy, and suddenly you start to realize he’s not getting hard for you? I bet there were a hundred things going through your mind at that point. “Why isn’t he turned on by me? What am I doing wrong? Isn’t he attracted to me anymore?” I was talking to a client of mine about this the other day. He asked me, “David, sometimes a woman will be going down on me and I won’t be able to get hard. I’m fine when we’re having sex. What’s wrong with me? Has it happened to you before?” I couldn’t help but smile and say, “Yes. It’s happened to me more than once too!” Read more

Thinking of Playing Matchmaker?

I absolutely love bringing people together. Even before I made it my career, matching up my single friends was always so thrilling and rewarding for me. If you enjoy spreading love and have a natural matchmaking instinct or if you are constantly nagged by your friends to “set them up with someone good!” here are four factors to consider BEFORE setting up a friend to make sure your match is a success. After all, you want to be the one they thank at their wedding reception! Read more