Creating a wedding to reflect YOU

Woman holds perfect flowers for her wedding day
When a couple first becomes engaged, and the waves of “Congratulations!” have begun to subside, some of the very first questions that their friends and family will inevitably begin to ask them is, “So what is your wedding theme?” or, god forbid, “What are your wedding colors?”.  Although some might disagree with me, I strongly believe that the couple is, and should be, the theme of the wedding. Read more

#AskPatti: Valentine’s Day edition

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, so I thought I’d take make this #AskPatti all about your V-Day Qs. I know that the most romantic day of the year isn’t always the most comfortable, no matter what your relationship status is. Putting a lot of pressure on love can make even those most romantic person in the world squirm a bit. (Trust me. Even I’ve gotten itchy around Valentine’s Day and love is my life!) If you’re single, married, dating or “it’s complicated-ing,” I’ve got an answer for you! So, let’s dig in! Read more

Can Players Become Good Boyfriends?

A player points to himself
Here’s a question I get all the time from my female readers. “Can players change and become loyal, caring boyfriends?” Can womanizers change their ways and become devoted loving husbands? The answer is very simple. 100% yes they can. I used to be a womanizer myself. Back when I was in my 20’s I couldn’t stop dating. I was addicted to women. I loved the whole chase. Some of my friends even gave me the nickname, “Spot the Dog.” Read more

Guys don’t like being hunted, so girls, why are you hunting?

A girl on the prowl, hunting for a man
I often wonder this question when I scope out the scene at a nightclub or while watching reality TV like The Real World or The Real Housewives franchise, or even in my personal life observing strangers, friends and friends of friends interacting with guys. I can’t help but notice one common denominator between them all: that more times than not, the girls were pursuing the guys first, or what I like to call ‘hunting’. And I always think the same thing to myself, ‘if only she knew what she is doing is actually a big turn off’. In this article I’m going to tell you why no girl should never ever, ever be a ‘hunter’. Read more

What Does Your Red Lipstick Say to Men

Over the years, I have found that red lipstick catches most mens’ attention, more so than other colors. With so many different types of red, learn what message you are sending out and how men perceive you. Read more

How to meet men online

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