Tag Archives: relationship advice

Stop Playing Dating Games

Let me ask you a few questions… Have you ever ignored a guy’s text message? Have you ever dropped his calls so you looked busy? Have you put off a date because you told him you were double-booked? Be honest. How many times have you done one of these things? You waited until his third missed call before you bothered to reply to him. You spoke to your friends and they told you to play it cool, and don’t show you’re interested in him. You met a man you liked, and even though he asked you out, you told him you were busy. You wanted to make him wait for you. What happened in the end? He never tried asking you out again. If you really want to find love, you have to stop playing those dating games! Read more

Why Isn’t He Getting Hard For Me?

Have you ever been going down on a guy, and suddenly you start to realize he’s not getting hard for you? I bet there were a hundred things going through your mind at that point. “Why isn’t he turned on by me? What am I doing wrong? Isn’t he attracted to me anymore?” I was talking to a client of mine about this the other day. He asked me, “David, sometimes a woman will be going down on me and I won’t be able to get hard. I’m fine when we’re having sex. What’s wrong with me? Has it happened to you before?” I couldn’t help but smile and say, “Yes. It’s happened to me more than once too!” Read more

How Do I Know What He’s Really Thinking?

I get tons of emails from women, but the question I'm asked the most is “How do I know what he’s really thinking?” “We’ve been going out for a while. He seems to like me. We’ve even started having sex, but suddenly he’s gone cold on me. What’s changed? Did I do something to upset him?” Well, let’s look at this situation shall we? You’ve started a relationship with a man. You’ve taken your relationship to the physical stage. And you feel like he was starting to open up to you. Now he’s gone cold, there must be something going on in his head right? I mean, men don’t just go cold for no reason do they? Well, I’m going to put you out of your misery and give you the answer to that burning question… Read more

I Dare You

Living in West Hollywood is amazing. On one block of Santa Monica Blvd. you can grab a drink at the best bars in Boystown. Just north on Sunset, you have some of the greatest restaurants and just down Robertson,  you have some of the best shopping in town. In my fantasy, Channing Tatum and I do all of the above except he pays for everything on his Amex Black Card. A boy can dream. Read more

Great Expectations: How to manage yours (and hers) online

It happens to all of us. We join a dating site with high hopes. We’ve heard about so many people finding someone great online. We even have friends that have girlfriends or boyfriends they’ve met that way. It seems to be happening all around us…but not to us. We’ve sworn off it before, but now it’s time. We’ve had enough. So we join. The first time looking at all the new faces, it feels like opportunity abounds. This is it. It’s going to happen this time. So, we send out a bunch of emails with high hopes. Some we’re really, super interested in, some sort-of interested in. Either way, we want to meet someone. Read more

How to cope when your religions don’t

If you watch Millionaire Matchmaker, you know that I put a lot of emphasis on religion when I’m matching a millionaire. I always ask my clients how important religion is to them and if they’d prefer to be matched with a partner of the same faith. I’ve been around the block in this business and I know that religion can be a maker or a breaker in relationships. Unfortunately though, unless you have a professional matchmaker helping you out, the topics of religion and faith in your life plan often don’t come up until you’re already very emotionally invested in your relationship. So, if you’ve found yourself loving someone whose religious beliefs don’t match up with your own, here’s how to deal. Read more