10 Ways to get your relationship stress on a zen level

You know that happy couple that’s so blissfully in love they never have an ounce of stress and spend every single second just hearting each other to pieces with no mixed feelings? Yeah, me neither. Because that couple doesn’t exist. Every single relationship involves some level of stress. Money, relationship status, in-laws, friends, social situations, basically anything and everything can bring stress into your relationship. So here are 10 ways to get your relationship-related stress a little more under control. Hope they help you out. Read more

Love lessons from black and white movies

I’ll admit that I’m a reality TV junkie. I watch everything from The Bachelor to Hoarders to every single one of the Real Housewives franchises. But my other guilty pleasure is black and white movies. I love the old-school glamour. And those men are men! No metrosexual ridiculousness going on with them. They knew what they wanted, and they went for it. And of course, I love the love in those movies. There was real romance back then. Black and white movies have real lessons to teach about love. Here are three of my favorite. Read more

Why Valentine’s Day is the best day to snag a new man

I stopped by the Glamour Magazine headquarters this week to give them advice on the best way to snag a date for Valentine's Day. You might be anti-love on the cheesiest day of the year, but I can give you a reason to get up and go out on V-Day. It's a sea of single men! Don't believe me? Head over to Glamour.com for the full story!

Valentine’s Day countdown: 10 Ways to improve your relationship each day leading up to V-Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, ladies, and I couldn’t be more excited about it. I know lots of folks out there have a chip on their shoulder about V-Day, but really, what has February 14 ever done to you? I get that there are lots of expectations that are often unmet when it comes to Valentine’s Day, but I say if you go in with the right attitude of just celebrating love, you can’t go wrong. And if you put in a little extra effort improving your relationship each day leading up to Valentine’s Day, you’ll have all the more love to celebrate. So here are some fun things you can do from now until the big heart day! Read more

There’s more to being attractive than how you look

I know that I catch a lot of flack for how focused on looks I am on my show, Millionaire Matchmaker. Honestly, though, I’m not focused on looks personally. I’m focused on looks because my clients are focused on looks. And they’re focused on looks because, well, everyone is attracted to someone. Your physical appearance matters. And that’s a fact. But of course, being attractive isn’t solely about looks. There so much that goes into being attractive that’s well beyond physical appearance. That’s why I was so glad when I read this article that highlights exactly what, aside from looks, contributes to being attractive. I couldn’t agree more. Read more

Ever wonder why you can’t find a love that lasts?

Did you ever think that maybe you decided before you reincarnated on earth that you chose to put a lot of appointments in your little black book to hook up with various people on purpose? Some of us are not like others when comes to relationships. You may be that guy or girl whose has a lot of dates, mates or even marriages but seem to be unlucky in love. That's not true -- As a believer of reincarnation there's another reason. It doesn't mean you can't stick with one or that you're a failure in love. It just may mean that you decided before you got here that you wanted to get rid of the karma, in some cases drama, quickly all in one life. Once we get through the cause and effect of karma in past relationships and learn the universe's lesson, it dissipates not to haunt us again. In English that means, next! Read more