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One of my male friends is 5'7". He's been on Match.com and told me his message inbox is radio silent. He will message women and they won't respond, and doesn't receive messages initiated by women either. But then he told me, "Anita, just for fun sometimes I change my height to 6 feet, and then my inbox gets flooded with messages." Several of my male clients are on dating app and mention that of the first questions that women ask them is their height. When they say they're 5'9" or 5'8", they don't hear from them again. The average height for men is 5'9"!
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I’m not too proud to admit that I turn to YouTube to learn to do basically everything in my life. How to curl my hair. How to make the perfect omelet. How I've actually been eating apples wrong my whole life. And after I find what I’m looking for, I’ll often find myself in a YouTube blackhole, watching vlogger after vlogger. And one thing that’s consistent about these vloggers is that they talk about the struggle of having such a public personal life and trying to date. Read more
I’m sitting here with my friend Alex who is also a dating coach, and we’re talking about how dating makes absolutely no sense.
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You have a date planned. For some women, that means prep starts up to a week before with waxing and peels. For others, it could mean just a restless night of sleep due to first date nerves. Some women might get up early and blow out their hair before work so they can be date ready right at 5pm. Other women might spend their lunch Google stalking their set up. No matter who you are, if you have a date, there’s some sort of pre-date ritual you go through. And it’s a real buzzkill when you’re all amped up for a date and the guy gets in touch to cancel. Here’s how to deal.
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The best story ever told was between someone’s fingertip and their beloved’s skin- a love story of some sort or the tale of two individuals coming together. The only thing more epic than the beginning of a love story is the ending- the final touch or the end of the caress. In today’s society, it seems as though the only thing being touched is the screen on a smart phone to start a text message, and sometimes, the ending of an affair isn’t even granted that courtesy.
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