What to do if you’re in two different worlds

Couple divided by two different worlds
Anyone else out there as obsessed with Orange is the New Black as I am? I swear if David didn’t pull me away from my Netflix and force me to live a normal human life, I’d have watched all 13 episodes in one sitting without showering, eating or even bathroom breaks. It’s so effing good! I don’t want to give anything away, even anything from season 1, but I will say that Piper and Larry’s relationship is so interesting. For anyone who’s living under a rock, the show is about Piper Chapman, who gets sent to a women’s prison for a decade old crime, leaving her fiancé out in the free world. Needless to say, this complicates their relationship. It got me thinking about couples where it feels like each partner is on a different planet. This separate world feeling doesn’t have to come from something as extreme as a prison sentence. It can happen when one person stays at home and the other works or when you’re in a long distance relationship or even when one person is extremely into a hobby (sports, video games or, um, Netflix!) and the other person is really not. Here’s how to bridge a gap between two worlds. Read more

When relationships change should your expectations as well?

Sherri Shepard and Lamar Sally
Height, weight, eye color - things like this are easy to evaluate right off the bat because lets face it, character assessment takes much more time. So if you are all skin and bones and the man you meet likes curvy women, you may not be a match. If a woman can't stand being taller than the man she's dating, and you're one of the nicest guys in the world but only 5' 1" there's a chance date number 3 may not happen. Read more

How to Tell if He’s Just Not That Into You

Man ignores girl, he's just not that into her
Okay girls, listen up because I know you’ve all been in this situation before: how do you know when he’s really into you or if he’s just not that into you and only in your life passing the time? I know we’ve all wracked our brains over this topic, but to keep it short and sweet there are distinct signs you should look for when deciphering whether he’s just not that into you. Read more

How to attract a quality guy

Want to know why you get hit on by losers, while the quality guys stay away? Do you wonder why the same women seem to attract the one great guy at the bar, at the dinner party, at the wedding… And you end up feeling like the Cinderella’s step-sister? Are you at a loss to explain to your friends and family why you’re still single? Isn’t it time your glass slipper fit? Most women don’t realize they send signals every day that are actually keeping the good men, the quality men, the marriage minded men out of their lives. I see it every day and it’s the simplest thing you can change, quickly. Listen to today’s ‘Love Report’, as David Wygant and I explain what unconscious things you and millions of other women are doing wrong. How the subtle signals in your body language and your clothes could be repelling the very men that are trying to attract. And how you can make the small changes in your approach that will bring huge changes in the quality of men in your life!

The 3 Juiciest Things I Learned From My Interview With Brandi Glanville

Patti Stanger and Brandi Glanville
You guys know Brandi Glanville, right? The gorgeous blonde in the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills with legs that make the Empire State Building feel stumpy? Well, I’m lucky enough to call Brandi my friend. We met a few years ago at a PR event and hit it off instantly. She’s charming and brash and passionate and I was in friend crush heaven the second I met her. She's been through a lot, from her very public divorce to battling it out with the other housewives. That gal's got a Teflon exterior and she's ready to pounce if anyone hurts her or her boys. You absolutely cannot blame her, though! I sat down with Ms. Brandi to talk about her new book Drinking and Dating: P.S. Social Media Is Ruining Romance. I read the whole thing and it’s fan-freaking-tastic. Seriously, Brandi managed to capture everything that’s amazing about her in person and put it on the page. When you’re reading it, you’re going to feel like you’re her best friend. The woman has dated some very famous, very powerful and very hot men and isn’t afraid to kiss and tell. In our little interview together, I got some serious dish from Brandi and I’ve been dying to share it with you. So, here’s what she told me... Read more

#AskPatti: The MIA guy, avoiding online dating & physical attraction

Ask Patti Stanger
Hope you lovelies has a gorgeous week. I definitely did. I’ve been super swamped with work recently, but I had some very successful dates with several of my clients this week. And getting those phone calls is the best. I’d stay in the office until midnight every single day of the year if it meant more gleeful post-first date calls. Another reason my week was so great was your questions. Let’s jump into them. Read more