Category Archives: The Men’s Room – Love and Relationship Advice From a Man For Women

How to let go in the bedroom

Ladies… I want to tell you something I hope is going to change the way you feel about yourself in the bedroom. For some reason, the media has this stupid attitude towards women and sexuality. If a man is “wild” in the bedroom he’s a hero, yet if a woman’s “wild” in the sack she’s a whore. But here’s the thing… As women, it’s perfectly fine to let go in the bedroom. It’s fine to be direct, it’s OK to be sexy, and it’s perfectly acceptable for you to be vocal during sex. In fact, most guys love it. I know I love when a woman lets her hair down. When she’s a little kinky. Maybe even a little dirty. We’re humans, and we’re sexual beings. It’s how we’re created, and it’s something we should celebrate. The more you relax and let yourself go, the better your relationships are going to be. So here’s what I want you to do… Read more

Why Aren’t More Men Like Christian Grey?

Are you looking forward to the upcoming 50 Shades of Grey movie? Millions of women around the world will be packing movie theatres when they release this, just so they can spend a couple of hours with their ultimate fantasy, Christian Grey. He’s not the nicest character ever created, but one who knows how to get women hot under the collar. So what is it you women love about Mr. Grey, and more importantly, why aren’t real guys more like him? Read more

How to Avoid Dating a Self-Obsessed Nightmare

These days you don’t have to look far to find arrogant people, full of their own self-importance. One place in particular that appears to be packed with these self-obsessed jerks is Beverly Hills, California. I had the misfortune of encountering one of them the other day, while patiently waiting to get out of a parking garage. Out of nowhere, the woman in front of me had exploded with rage at the person in the booth.

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Stop Playing Dating Games

Let me ask you a few questions… Have you ever ignored a guy’s text message? Have you ever dropped his calls so you looked busy? Have you put off a date because you told him you were double-booked? Be honest. How many times have you done one of these things? You waited until his third missed call before you bothered to reply to him. You spoke to your friends and they told you to play it cool, and don’t show you’re interested in him. You met a man you liked, and even though he asked you out, you told him you were busy. You wanted to make him wait for you. What happened in the end? He never tried asking you out again. If you really want to find love, you have to stop playing those dating games! Read more

Why Isn’t He Getting Hard For Me?

Have you ever been going down on a guy, and suddenly you start to realize he’s not getting hard for you? I bet there were a hundred things going through your mind at that point. “Why isn’t he turned on by me? What am I doing wrong? Isn’t he attracted to me anymore?” I was talking to a client of mine about this the other day. He asked me, “David, sometimes a woman will be going down on me and I won’t be able to get hard. I’m fine when we’re having sex. What’s wrong with me? Has it happened to you before?” I couldn’t help but smile and say, “Yes. It’s happened to me more than once too!” Read more

How Do I Know What He’s Really Thinking?

I get tons of emails from women, but the question I'm asked the most is “How do I know what he’s really thinking?” “We’ve been going out for a while. He seems to like me. We’ve even started having sex, but suddenly he’s gone cold on me. What’s changed? Did I do something to upset him?” Well, let’s look at this situation shall we? You’ve started a relationship with a man. You’ve taken your relationship to the physical stage. And you feel like he was starting to open up to you. Now he’s gone cold, there must be something going on in his head right? I mean, men don’t just go cold for no reason do they? Well, I’m going to put you out of your misery and give you the answer to that burning question… Read more