Your financial situation isn’t so bad if you would be more patient. It takes time to turn an ocean liner around.
Usually you want everyone to feel as if they’ve done their share. Unfortunately they haven’t, so don’t say that things are OK when they’re not.
If you haven’t changed a certain situation after all of this time then maybe you should accept it as is. Perhaps it’s not the situation that’s unchangeable, but you?
Feeling buffeted about by people’s extremely emotional opinions? Steer the middle course today and you’ll do fine.
You can see what’s wrong, but can you recognize what’s right? Come from a more constructive place and you will.
The more that old situations collapse and fall around you, the more liberated you’ll feel. This is where you want to put your energies.