5 Things that should be on your Christmas wish list

woman opens a gift for Christmas
Not sure what to ask for from your special someone this year? I always go blank when my boo asks me what gifts I want. So, over the past few months I’ve been taking notes when I think of good ideas for what my man can get me for the holidays. That way, I’ll be prepped when he pops the holiday gift question. Here’s what I have on my list that you should have on yours too. Read more

The Creepiest OkCupid Message I’ve Ever Received

Creepy OkCupid message
When my last relationship ended, I decided to jump on the bandwagon and sign up for OkCupid. It sounded pretty harmless, and at the very least, I thought it might boost my bruised ego. Unfortunately, I was not prepared for what I signed up for. Granted, most women get their share of creepy messages, but I would venture to say that this message takes creepy to a whole new level. I present to you a nominee for the title of Creepiest OkCupid Message Ever. Read at your own risk: Read more

Online Dating And Mental Masturbation

Woman sits on computer online dating, creating mental masturbation
Online dating sites can be great places to meet your ideal man, but there’s a danger lurking around the corner, ready to pounce on the unsuspecting female mind. What is this online dating monster to stay alert for? It’s mental masturbation! “What the hell are you talking about David Wygant?” You exclaim. Mental masturbation is what happens when you fall in love with a man online, before you actually meet him. You spot his profile. He looks so good. You keep going back to look at his profile. Every time you read it, you start to want him more. In your mind, he’s the guy that’s going to ride off with you into the sunset. In your mind, he’s going to get down on one knee and ask you to marry him. You love how he looks, what he says about himself, and how he describes his perfect relationship. He sounds like the most amazing guy you’ve ever met. Read more

#AskPatti: Inexperienced men, how to avoid dating more jerks, first date advice & more!

Ask Patti Stanger
Hello, my holiday hams! (That’s weird, right? Never writing that again, I promise.) I’m already feeling like 2013 is going to be my best holiday season ever. It just feels more festive and fun than any other December I can remember. Plus, I’ve found matches for an even higher than usual number of my millionaires in the past few weeks. And that always feels special. I love getting matches done right before the holidays so new couples can celebrate together. Enough about me and onto you! Here are your questions from the week. Read more

AskJustin: Strip clubs and getting back with the ex

Ask Justin Bird
If a guy is really into strip clubs does that make him a dog?
Some men at strip clubs feel like 6-year-old boys at Disneyland on the night before Christmas. This is completely okay as we are men remember? One word to keep in mind: Moderation! The first question I want to ask is how often? If it’s any more frequent than five-ish times a year, then I would be concerned and raise a red flag. If a man goes to a strip club for special occasions (bachelor parties or birthdays), then it is completely normal. Is the man married, single, taken? A married man should limit his attendance to special occasions, while a single man gets a free pass. Read more

Toms in Love, Now Shut the F#ck Up.

A few weeks ago I was spinning at the news that Olympic Diver, Tom Daley not only had (unofficially) come out, but was also in love. In an instant, Tom was becoming a major role model for many young fans around the world dealing with their own sexuality. But naturally the press did not want to focus on that part of the story and instead they said “screw that” and decided to focus on the possibility that he is dating Oscar winning screenwriter, Dustin Lance Black. Read more