How to let go in the bedroom

Ladies… I want to tell you something I hope is going to change the way you feel about yourself in the bedroom. For some reason, the media has this stupid attitude towards women and sexuality. If a man is “wild” in the bedroom he’s a hero, yet if a woman’s “wild” in the sack she’s a whore. But here’s the thing… As women, it’s perfectly fine to let go in the bedroom. It’s fine to be direct, it’s OK to be sexy, and it’s perfectly acceptable for you to be vocal during sex. In fact, most guys love it. I know I love when a woman lets her hair down. When she’s a little kinky. Maybe even a little dirty. We’re humans, and we’re sexual beings. It’s how we’re created, and it’s something we should celebrate. The more you relax and let yourself go, the better your relationships are going to be. So here’s what I want you to do… Read more

What kinds of photos should I post to Facebook while dating?

[caption id="attachment_8794" align="alignright" width="448"] Avoid showing too many "selfies" on Facebook as it can be a turn-off to men.[/caption] It should be no surprise to you to hear that social media and the internet have changed the way people meet and date drastically.  As soon as you are introduced to someone, your first instinct is to use Google, Facebook, LinkedIn and Twitter to learn as much about the person as the site will allow. Gone are the days of having to be on the actual date to learn where someone grew up, where they work, or their favorite places to vacation. Read more

Multiple Orgasms? Yes Please

Let me guess. You don’t have orgasms as often as you’d like. You’re annoyed that your partner doesn’t know what to do to get you there. You can’t remember the last time you had an orgasm, or if you’ve ever had one in your life. Read more

How To Date When You’re Feeling Down

We’ve all heard it during the past few years. A lot. “It’s been a challenging year”. So many people I know have experienced it. Friends, clients, family, friends of friends, women I’ve met online, whatever it is...it’s in the air and it seems to have touched nearly everybody. In the past, the well educated and well employed have been immune to it, but not this time. Read more

Why Aren’t More Men Like Christian Grey?

Are you looking forward to the upcoming 50 Shades of Grey movie? Millions of women around the world will be packing movie theatres when they release this, just so they can spend a couple of hours with their ultimate fantasy, Christian Grey. He’s not the nicest character ever created, but one who knows how to get women hot under the collar. So what is it you women love about Mr. Grey, and more importantly, why aren’t real guys more like him? Read more

How to react if/when the kids walk in on you

kid walks in on parents having sex
Remember those lazy Saturday afternoons you’d spend in bed making out with your husband? Yeah. Not so much when kiddos are in the picture. There are breakfasts to be made. Cartoons to be watched. Birthday parties to be attended. Plus, kids don’t really understand the idea of privacy. They’ll barge in whenever they feel like it and if it’s when you feel like it, well, that can lead to some awkwardness. You know what I’m talking about—the sex walk in. Here’s how to react if your little darlings turn into the ultimate cock-blocks and walk in on you during sex: Read more