Do You Get Lonely?

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I was training at the gym earlier, and as I watched a number of people training alone I started thinking to myself, “life must get lonely for some people.” If you’re single, you wake up in the morning and you’re alone. You go to work, and you’re alone. You go training at the gym, and you’re alone. Then you go home, on your own. On my way home from the gym I started looking into the windows of the houses I passed. I saw all the condos, apartments, and lofts. Where I live is in a Marina, which is mainly a loft district. As I looked in the windows, I could see people watch television, having dinner, and sipping wine, all on their own. I wondered how many of these people were lonely. I know there are many lonely people out there. I know from the work I do. I read it in all the emails and letters I’m sent every day. In many ways, it’s very sad when you think about it. Sometimes life can be very lonely. So what do we do to change it?  Read more

11 Tips for a Successful Date

11 tips for successful dating. couple holds hands
Dating plays a vital role in the matchmaking process. This is where my clients get to practice. Meeting with a matchmaker is the classroom experience, while dating is the hands on, field experience—offering an opportunity to get out there and find who and what exactly works for them. As a Matchmaker I supply my clients with invaluable feedback after each date, but my tips before a date are what I stress when first working with a client. Whether you are looking for advice to share with your own clients, or are eager to plan a successful date for yourself, I guarantee that incorporating these 11 dating tips will make the dating experience more successful, and enjoyable! Read more

Go Down On Her Like You Mean It!

Woman enjoys oral sex from man
Unless your tongue is broken, there's absolutely no excuse not to go down on her, especially if she’s going down on you. And if there is one thing women love it’s oral sex. With your tongue on her clitoris and your eyes looking into her eyes, go down on her with these six orgasmic-inducing tips. Read more

5 reasons to keep him

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The problem with dating, especially dating in cities, is that there’s always something new and shiny and possibly better than what you have now right around the corner. That “something different, something better” itch often stops us from appreciating the something really awesome we have in front of our faces. I used to see this issue a lot with my male clients. And like I said before, the more citified they were, the more prevalent the problem. But, I’ve been seeing this issue pop up a bunch with my female clients recently. It feels like this issue is becoming contagious! So, in an effort to stop the spread of something-better-itis (It’s a real thing. It’s going to be on WebMD soon, I swear!) I’m giving you five good reasons to keep your man. Read more

What’s The Price of Great Sex?

I was having a conversation with a lady I coach earlier. She was telling me about a guy she started dating a while ago. He’s having some problems with his business, and he’s not dealing with it that well.  She also thinks he has some anger problems too. He can be very aggressive, and speaks to her in a pretty mean way some times. I told her he didn’t sound like the type of guy she should be with. What do you think she said to me? “But David, he’s a sexy guy, and we have great sex” I was stunned. Read more

AskPatti: Multiple crushes, plus size dating advice, flakey online dates & more!

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WOW! You all really delivered with amazing #AskPatti questions this week. I couldn’t quite answer all of them. But, I jammed as many as I possibly could into this one little column. Jump right in and see if I answered your question! Read more