Tag Archives: sex
Summer is upon us. Along with longer days and hotter nights, summer brings a sense of freedom and spontaneity, like anything is possible. Unless that “anything” involves generating any kind of body heat.
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Oh, honey. I feel you. I really, really do. I think most women and probably a good chunk of men have felt the pain you’re in. Whether you’re dealing with a post-partum body, a few extra pounds, boobs you don’t think are big enough, thigh you don’t think are small enough or just a general “society is forcing me to hate myself so I do” crummy-ness, it can make getting intimate and feeling sexy seem very, very unappealing. But, no matter the shape or size of your body or how you feel about the thing, I know one thing about your body…it wants sex. It’s a natural thing that every body wants. So, don’t deprive it of this very basic necessity. Here’s how you can have sex when you’re not in love with your body.
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Stop the O-Blocking: Breathe Deeply For Better Sex
Q: Dear Emily
In the past year, I have been on a mission to have regular orgasms and since I’m currently single, this has been mostly a solo mission. I’ve been taking all of your advice: I've got the sex toys and the lube, I know where all my hot spots are and I know how to touch them, but I’m still only orgasming a third of the time. It’s so frustrating! Sometimes I will be right on the cusp of climaxing, but Read more
Why You HAVE To Return The Favor In Bed!
I had a great email from a male subscriber the other day that I want to share with you. It says...
"Hey David, I've been seeing this amazing new woman recently. The sex is incredible. I love going down on her. In fact, after taking your advice on how to do it and the great reaction I get when I do, I'm getting pretty addicted to it.
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Okay, you might be a little confused, and that's okay! Let me start by explaining the term Cliteracy.
Cliteracy (n.) The art of being knowledgeable and skilled in the workings and details of female anatomy.
Many of you may be thinking, "Okay, well I know what I've got going on down there. The clitoris is that button, right? DONE." You may be aware of its existence, but knowing that it exists does not make you knowledgeable or skilled in Cliteracy. That'd be like saying "I know where the eggs, sugar and butter are in my pantry - Hey, I'm a chef!". Cliteracy involves an understanding of where the clitoris is, how it works, and most importantly, how to please it. But first, let's talk some little known facts about the clitoris… Read more
Q: Dear Emily,
Thanks to you, I am now a woman with several sex toys. I have recently fallen in love with my Magic Wand vibrator, and it has totally changed things for me in that I can now not only orgasm, but have multiple orgasms! But now I'm wondering.. Is it bad that I only ever want to use my vibrator to masturbate? The things is, I've heard rumors about vibrators actually desensitizing the clitoris, and now I'm worried that I'm ruining my vagina! Is this true? Whenever I go back to using my hands, it takes SO long to get there and I'm not even sure if I'm climaxing. Has it already started? Am I addicted to my vibrator? Help!
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