You don’t like putting an association at risk in order to take the next step forward, but there’s no other way. Afterwards do some damage control.
The fact that your hands are tied is a plus, not a minus. This keeps you from appearing too overeager which only increases your desirability.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter who’s right. A simple acknowledgement of hurt feelings is all it takes to win back someone’s support.
An argument over finances may be fueled by lingering resentments. Address what’s going on underneath. The money matter can be settled another time.
Don’t pass up a job opportunity. Just because it doesn’t fit into current plans doesn’t mean you can’t find a way to make it work.
Take a few steps back so you can regain your bearings. Tell others who think you’re bailing out that you need a breather.
