Gather information, but don’t be in such a hurry to make the pieces fit. You’ll only reinforce familiar conclusions. Be open to what jumps out at you now.
You’ll soon be attracting a lot of negative attention. There’s no avoiding it, so hold your head high.
Polling people is OK, but picking views that support yours while dismissing those that don’t defeats the purpose.
You don’t see why you have to give more to someone who’s gotten so much. You can’t see it right now, but this will balance the scales.
Just because you know better doesn’t mean that understanding will make you feel better. Give yourself a few days for your heart to catch up to your mind.
Never underestimate the miraculous cure that an apology can affect. A simple “I’m sorry” always works wonders.


