You and another party are killing each other with kindness. Make life easier and just tell it like it is.
It’s rare when you decide to cut a slacker some slack, but you’re right to do this and will benefit from this show of leniency.
You’re democratic to a point. The more you debate with your kid or co-worker, the more you realize you may need to use an iron hand.
Instead of pointing out a problem, show how creative you can be by coming up with a solution.
You know that accomplishments often lead to new contests, but let yourself bask in your triumph. Otherwise life becomes an unending battle.
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