If someone’s wavering, then let them go. Sometimes facing the unknown prospect of an open door is all it takes to get them to reconsider.
Make time for a sibling who needs to talk. What they share will make you think of recent events differently. It may even soften your heart.
Are you forcing yourself into a role that doesn’t suit you? It might explain the crankiness. You can’t go wrong doing what comes naturally.
A sob story is meant to melt your heart. That’s why it’s called a sob story. It’s not unfeeling to probe for specifics. In fact, it’s smart.
You have to decide about a matter that’s been on hold for weeks. Circumstances are different and the players have changed but face it: your feelings are still the same.
Having people compete for you is an ego boost. You’d let it last forever if you could but you now must choose – and there’s the rub.
