You’re sending “keep away” signals. It’s why people maintain a respectful distance. If you truly want company then ease up.
You’re right to be angry with a colleague who failed to back you up, but this person’s still in your life for better or for worse. Consider it water under the bridge.
Histrionics are to be expected when the Moon is in Sagittarius. Thankfully people’s tantrums are more sound than fury. Calm returns next Tuesday.
You’ve been so focused on yourself that you haven’t paid attention to developments in your partner’s life. These will soon take precedence.
Are you being squeezed out at work? Best defend your turf before somebody horns in on it.
Marching to a different drummer was fine when you were going somewhere. Now you look lost. Find your way back to the rest of the band.