Ask Emily: How Long Should I Wait Before Making a Date?

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Hi Emily, I learn so much from your podcasts! I am 36 and recently separated from a 16-year relationship. After waiting eight months, I decided I was ready to start dating again. A few colleagues of mine recommended some dating apps, so I checked them out. I went on two OKCupid dates and they went horribly. Then I gave it one last shot and started talking to a guy six years older than me. We have been talking for two weeks but haven't met in person yet. So far, our connection has been great! So here’s my question for you: is there a certain timeline to meet this guy and move forward from there? What do you suggest when it comes to going from cyber- and phone-chatting to meeting IRL? Read more

Daily horoscopes: October 4, 2016

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

If another point of view makes you defensive then maybe you’re not as sure of things as you suppose.  Listen to what this person has to say.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

You’ve test driven many new strategies recently but you’re not sold on any one of them.  Give the tried-and-true another go.  It might surprise you. Read more

Daily horoscopes: October 3, 2016

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Relationship discussions strike a raw nerve.  Cop to your side of things and you’ll untangle the knots that have sprung up between you.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

You don’t like that your future is in others’ hands, but you can’t do much about that now.  Grin and bear it until Oct. 18. Read more

How to date like a millionaire on a budget

When I watch episodes of my show and even look at the dates my current millionaire clients take their dates on, my mouth starts to water a bit. Dating like a millionaire seems so wonderful. But, it’s not possible for most of us here in the real world. Spending thousands of dollars on one date is just an insane concept when you don’t have a millionaire’s bank account. I came up with a few ways for you to date like you have an unlimited budget even when you have a very limited budget. Read more

Daily horoscopes: September 30, 2016

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

An intimate is on shaky ground. You’d love to set this person straight, but your take on matters is very different. Offer moral support instead.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

The truth is no one really knows what they’re dealing with. New territory always brings new rules. Suspend expectations for now. Read more

Daily horoscopes: September 29, 2016

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

It’s amazing how people can point out fault in others while remaining oblivious to their own, but don’t say anything unless you feel like you’re above reproach.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

A short cut will only cut you short in the end with the Moon occult Mercury today. Take the long way and you won’t be sorry when you reach your destination. Read more