I was recently at a friend’s summer BBQ and I met a new woman. We chit chatted for awhile and then I asked if she was the girlfriend of the man she walked in with. Her answer was, “Yes? I think so? It’s been about three months of dating. So, yeah?” My take on her guess is, “Uh, no!” You should know when you’re someone’s girlfriend. Definitively. And if you don’t, you’re not. It’s that simple. That’s not to say that if you’re in a prolonged “just dating” situation, there’s no way to level up to “in a relationship.” Of course there is! That big step up is basically how all relationships start. Here’s how to make the leap if you’ve been in a “just dating” plateau for a while. Read more
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
Every relationship is made up of three entities: you, your partner, and the relationship. If you and your lover don't see eye-to-eye then do what's right by your relationship.TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
Pay close attention to the body language because that person sure does fidget a lot for someone who's issuing an ultimatum. Read more
Ghosting is the new way of blowing people off.
It drives everybody crazy.
It drives women crazy, it drives men crazy.
You go on a few dates.
If you want maybe two, even three or four dates.
He's texting you. Read more
ARIES.
(March 20 - April 19):
Is your criticism really coming from the right place or is it based on one-upmanship? Examine your motives before others cross-examine them for you.TAURUS.
(April 20 - May 20):
A loved one shows signs of reemerging from a week-long funk. Be helpful, but don't push it. He's still a little wobbly on his feet. Read more
I’m basically writing this for anyone who dates me in the future. Change the “his” to “her” in the title of this post and you basically have the number one question my exes have struggled with. I’m writing it about “his work” now because that’s how the question normally gets posed to me. Granted, I have a bit of a skewed demo because I work with a lot more male millionaires than I do with female millionaires. And millionaires come with a lot of baggage. A demanding workload is generally a big piece of that baggage. Like, not a carry on sized piece. A checked luggage piece. So, if you’re dating someone whose work is getting in the way, here’s what to do. Read more
